is it better late to start being in a relationghip thatn having to start early. im 18 and never been kissed. ive been occasionally told i look pretty..its not like i have no life...i work, go to school, and volunteer....but in my litle free time, i wonder why im not with someone? so, is it better to just start maybe even after i finish college? would that be normal or must i start looking for one?
2007-03-20 15:59:04 · 16 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im a girl. my name is just masculine...im a bi girl btw.
2007-03-20 16:07:43 · update #1
DO NOT WAIT! obviously you want to be in a relationship. so figure out what women find attractive in men. you need confidence, humor, personality, style but one major misconception that MOST men have is you need money to get women. NO you need money to buy hookers and that what you will be doing if you need to buy her attention. just buying her time until you either run out of money or if she divorces you. the only way to learn how to talk to girls is to grow a sack and start doing it! start with the girls you dont find attractive cuz if you cant to talk a girl you dont find attractive how will you ever talk to the girl of your dreams. pick up lines are lame the only time I have found them usefull is to use them sarcastically. acting like you know they dont work and you know that most men try them. like your making fun of those cheese balls.....good luck!
2007-03-20 16:13:27 · answer #1 · answered by declaar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wondering... Are you gay? Your name is Vincent and you said you look pretty.... That is not a normal hetrosexual response from an 18 year old boy. Not there is anything wrong with being gay but you may be asking this question to the wrong audience... Is there sombody in your life you want to kiss? Maybe you should talk to the guy who told you - you look pretty. He may be a good place to start for your first kiss.
Good Luck to you
Kathy
2007-03-20 23:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you will know when to start my opinion you should wait i am married and have a baby girl who is now 9 months old. I got married at age 18 now i am 20 when i met my husband it was awsome but you know i wish i would have dated him a little longer. i dated him for only 1 1/2 months than got married. You know if you get into a relationship now it can get to the point where you get siriouse in life is that what you want? having fun is great but other than worring about a boyfriend and him worring about you it is best to just chill for now. Now in days everyone seems to just wanting to grow up so fast but cant handle the responsibility in the end so my thinking is have fun and dont worry about anything till you are set on your two feet and dont have to depend on someone!! :)
2007-03-20 23:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be in any rush to start dating right now. Please understand that there is no "normal" for any one person--everyone is different in the way that they grow in different aspects of life, and there is no one way that is "better" than another.
I admire you for waiting so long to ask someone out. I would suggest that you go into college with the mindset that you're not necessarily looking for someone to date--and then best case scenario, you end up finding the woman of your dreams, fall in love with her, and marry!
In doing things that way, there will be no disappointment if it does not happen in the "timing" you thought was normal. :)
2007-03-20 23:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a relationship that will last, don't go looking for it. When the time is right, and that special someone comes along, it will happen. Just don't make the mistake of being in love with the idea of being in love.
2007-03-20 23:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by apsuz73 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to. Everyone is different. You probably just haven't found the right person. Don't worry; you will. Just be patient. If you def. want to go out with someone now, start talking to new people or go somewhere you usually don't. You may be pleasantly surprised. best of luck. <3
2007-03-20 23:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! it's better now! but's better later than "never"!
The sooner you start the more experienced you'll be in the future. However, you must want it, otherwise, don't bother! Live your life like you want to live it, who cares as to what others do.
2007-03-20 23:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by VIP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about dating and being with someone. You already have enough going on in your life, so you might not have enough time to spend dating someone. if you do date someone, they might feel that you don't give them enough time and attention. but don't resist it either. if you find someone you like at college then at least give it a chance.
2007-03-20 23:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by mrkramer5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont have tio be with someone in fact no its smart i mean get through college thats not a bad thing it will keep ur mind off and less stressed not having someone ..........plus the less and less u try and find someone the faster they will come to u..........when u spend all ur time lookin and lookin it seems liek no ones there but trust me the min u stop carin and lookin they will just eventually show up...........dont worry its not a bad thing..........u will find someone.
2007-03-20 23:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say wait till you finish college and get yourself together. Date yes dont get serious untill you get your life together. This will make easier to find a man on your level.You have plenty of time your young
2007-03-20 23:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by D B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋