cheating boyfriend? or overprotective self?

Question

I have been dating my high school sweetheart for 3 and a half years. Things have been tough over the years, but hey who's relationship isn't it? Overall, I would say we're a happy couple. I know he's not going anywhere, and he knows the same for me. The major issue we have is his relationships with other girls. Though he says they're just friends, he has a sense of flirtation with them. He has this friend who is not someone I wish my boyfriend was around. He's cheated on his girlfriend and continues, talks bad about women...basically he's a total sleaze. But, my boyfriend still likes hanging out with him. It's to the point where on one occassion I found out his password on myspace and discovered he was talking to other girls. According to him, it was his friend who did it. That his friend would get their number off my boyfriend's profile if they denied his. I will admit that the type of girls he messaged weren't the type of girls my boyfriend would go for, but recently, I

what if i suspect that he is but don't believe that he is....if that make sense

I found out his password again and found the same thing. Again, the girl doesn't seem like the type he would talk to, but in the message he asked for her number and gave information about himself to her. All of it was about him, not his friend. The thing that is preventing me to jump down his throat is the fact that whenever we're together I'm so happy. It's like I look into his eyes and just know that there's no one else. But the messages prove otherwise. We've also had a deep discussion about the whole cheating issue and made it known that if we've even thought about being with someone else we would break up, and he has in the past, so Im pretty sure he'll do it again. He also says that seeing the pain his mother went through prevents him from cheating on someone. And he has a very close relationship with his mother. My heart says one thing, but my eyes say another. Who do I believe my heart or my eyes?

I found out his password again and found the same thing. Again, the girl doesn't seem like the type he would talk to, but in the message he asked for her number and gave information about himself to her. All of it was about him, not his friend. The thing that is preventing me to jump down his throat is the fact that whenever we're together I'm so happy. It's like I look into his eyes and just know that there's no one else. But the messages prove otherwise. We've also had a deep discussion about the whole cheating issue and made it known that if we've even thought about being with someone else we would break up, and he has in the past, so Im pretty sure he'll do it again. He also says that seeing the pain his mother went through prevents him from cheating on someone. And he has a very close relationship with his mother. My heart says one thing, but my eyes say another. Who do I believe my heart or my eyes?

Answer 1

Hard to know, just keep an eye. If he is he'll trip up.

Answer 2

its the nature of men. well ofcourse not all men is like this. mostly the problem is about trust. or it could be he is cheating. you should talk it out with him. everybody been thru this. 3 yrs is a long time, so i know he have alot of feelings for you.




MISS!!! he is deffff flirting with other girls. if what you say is true but in a very stupid way like MYSPACE. he is probably bored of you, im sorry, it might be true.

just give him a chance. dont let something like this break your realtionship. let him explain. pple make mistakes.

Answer 3

If you suspect your man is cheating, he probably is. If not, he probably isn't. You are young but you still have women's intuition. Use it!!

Good luck!!

Answer 4

sure like the cigs i used to "hold" for my friends werent really mine. whats it take. a brick to fall on your head? hes looking.

Answer 5

www.cheaters.com~!:)