K. I'm dating this guy named TJ. When we were friends we could talk about anything?

Question

Now that we are going out, it is kindof weird now. We have nothing to talk about. Yes I hold hands with him and stuff but I don't feel anything. HELP. do u think we should breakup or no?

Answer 1

it's like a beginning challenge you have to get over.
just try to steer clear of the whole "i'm your gf/bf now" mentality and ask him how his day was and just branch off with other relevant topics avoiding the whole relationship bit. communication is important in a relationship. plus, if you two break up now...would that estrange your friendship even more. try to work it out.