I took my mom to the doctor a couple of months ago and there was this male nurse there. He was super nice and friendly to everyone...to the point I thought he might be gay! Anyway, while my mom was in the office, we got to talking. On the ride home, my mom tells me that she thinks he liked me. Thinking it over, he may have been flirting with me, but I'm clueless when it comes to picking up signals, so I wasn't sure. Every time we go there he'll sit and talk to me while she's with the doctor. It's not so much what he says to me, because it's just chat, but the way he looks at me gives me butterflies! Then, on our last visit, he said "have a good weekend" and smaked my butt! I suppose that should've been a definate signal...but I still think that maybe he's just being friendly (really friendly!) My mom says to "go for it"...but I've never asked a guy out before. Besides, if I'm misreading him then I'd be mortified and I do have to continue going to the office. So, any advice?
2007-03-20 15:40:14 · 4 answers · asked by just2peachy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, the doctor didn't smack me. His nurse did! And only after supposedly repeated attempts to grab my attention. As far as "going for it"....I am clueless as to what to do. Any suggestions?!?!
2007-03-21 12:56:48 · update #1
if he wanted you he'd ask you out. forget about him.
2007-03-20 15:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just anyone is going to put themselves out there like that and "smack you on the but", if that's not a huge signal that he's interested then I don't know what is. GO FOR IT!!!
2007-03-20 15:44:44 · answer #2 · answered by BRWNEYES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh thats weird if he smacked ur butt....but be careful alot of guys in the medical field r gay....no offense though and gay guys r comfortable with touchin girls b/c of course they arent interested so they dont think but ...........i mean what can it hurt ..............just like ne other guy he could say no but it wont kill u
2007-03-20 15:44:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The doctor smacked ur butt? white saying have a good day. he's a perv. who doesn't respect you. Do you look easy or sumthing?
2007-03-20 15:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Pinklady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋