Need some advice?

Question

ok...here is the situation..I met this guy and when we met it was only suppose to be a buddy type thing...Well we did do something but I also have feelings for this dude..Well he told my frined that he was thinkin bout being with me..I ain't tryin to jump into a relationship because I want to get to know him and everything but I want to be with him*does that make sense* Like i want to date him and only him...anyways..i don't know where we stand and I would really like to figure it out but I am to scared to talk to him and I got up the nerve tonight to talk to him but he was going to bed whne i left so he said he wouldn't call me and all this and I just sent him a text asking him to call me because I wanted to talk to him after setting somethng up to met tomorrow to talk. I don't know if I should wiat things out or try talking to him..Someone please help

Answer 1

You just want the "false" security you're getting knowing this guy is attracted to you. You're just going to end up getting hurt, stop being physical with him and wait for a guy you actually want. Because if you don't want a relationship with the guy then you don't truely like him.

Answer 2

ok if i can give u any good advice...don't be clingy!!!! guys HATE clingy! when he feels he can talk to u he will come to u. don't badger or pester him. if he said he's goin to bed and won't call, then what good does it do to text him? all its going to do is annoy him. when he figures out what he wants he will tell u. until then, have a little faith in him and wait it out.

Answer 3

dont you hate it when things dont go your way. its not fun is it. your pushing too hard for this. your probably scaring him away. stop it. if he wants to have a relationship with you he will. but on his terms not yours. if he doesnt call you in a couple days, youll have your answer. until then leave him alone.