well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it. the next day my friend overheard her and her best friends conversation and said her best friend said"so are you gunna go out wwith him" and she said i don't know. they also said she was really really happy i asked her out. the weird thing is after likea week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. also today in class we were reading this romantic story outloud and she kept staring at me with her head in her hands and looked kinda like she was daydreaming.(0) like this ( =hands 0=head
i'm just really confused now. does she like me? shes also transferring to a different school in may.when i saw her today my heart started beating in a way i never felt before it was........i dunno what to do . should i try again?
2007-03-20 15:32:49 · 10 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
work harder!
2007-03-20 15:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question reminds me of the song "Spooky". ;)
Well, you know she won't go out with you if you don't ask her. If you do ask her, then she might say yes, or she might say no. So, if your goal is to go out with her, it might be worth the risk of asking again. You are offering a compliment by showing interest. If she says "no", just smile and say "Well, it was worth a shot". Believe it. It IS worth a shot. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
You might do something romantic, like offer her a single carnation, or a decorated cupcake, before you ask, or when you ask. Not something so extravagant that it scares her off. Something simple, but impressive. You might suggest meeting somewhere, so that she knows she can leave at any time.
A guy I know has a theory that if you want someone to go out with, ask a hundred girls. Most will say no, but statistics say that at least a few of them will go out with you, and you'll get better at asking them out as you get some practice. He swears by it, and the friends he has shared it with have reported positive results.
Good luck!
2007-03-20 16:06:26 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course try again-but not right away-wait a while!! maybe she was influenced by her friends or she was undecided and felt bad holding off on the answer so said no-who knows maybe now she wants to play hard to catch-some girls love to do that-but what ever if you have enough courage to ask her out again then do it-what's it going to hurt-but maybe you should try getting her alone when she isn't with her friends and maybe ask her first why she said no-she may have a good reason as well-or just ask her out and if she rejects you again than ask her why!!
good luck!
2007-03-20 15:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by ang925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww thats so cute! i think she was prob pressured by her friends. sit down and talk with her alone is the best advice i can give you. dont be tooo forward or you might scare her off. maybe just hang out as friends a couple of times before asking if there's something more between you guys.
good luck! (=
2007-03-20 15:38:55 · answer #4 · answered by liz1214 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely ask again. If you really felt that way when you found out she's transferring to another school, then that's a huge sign.
Don't waste any more time, just go for it.
2007-03-20 15:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u dear??? U sound maybe about 14??? And if you really like her ask her to have lunch with u or something like that and find out whats going on
2007-03-20 15:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by pasofinosweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes just shy. Move on brother.
2007-03-20 15:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by jmanjman47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems to me that she told you your answer if she is not getting back to you. move on and find someone that will give you their time and to go out with you. good luck.
2007-03-20 15:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER OUT AGAIN RIGHT NOW CALL HER RIGHT NOW I ADVIVSE U AND ASK if she keeps looking at u then she proly likes u
2007-03-20 15:36:53 · answer #9 · answered by TG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...that is good ....she is really starting to like you alot....maybe it is time for you to ask her out again...or write her love note and put it in her locker....or write poems to her...keep it up.... i hope get in â¥â¥â¥â¥â¥.................GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-20 15:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by Baller21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋