I broke up with my x girlfriend well over a year ago, She was the only girl i ever loved and we lost are v to each other. We was toghether about 2 years and spent every minute of each day together.
But even though it was a long time ago i still feel like it was only yesterday and it hurts just as much. I still feel like a want to die cause i cant live without her. I feel like there is noone else in the world like her and even though ive seen a few girls since it feels nothing like it did with her :(
Is this normal or am i just weird, Thanks for reading this?
2007-03-20 15:24:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't rush how long it takes you, and it'll be okay.
just remember that you HAD reason to break up with her.
it'll be okay, sweetie, just give it some time.
good luck. :]
2007-03-20 15:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by kttm :] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can't get over her, why did you break up with her. after a year there isn't a chance to get back together.
how can you forget her? trust me, you will forget her in a second, after a time. you will wake up in the morning, and see how beautiful the world is, and feel completely free from her. everybody's been through this, and they all got over it. sometimes it takes longer. sooner you face the fact, that it's hopeless, the better. if you are not together any more, means, that she wasn't the right for you, she's not perfect, and you can live without her, how can you not? you are a mature person, independent, and confident, face your problems, and look for happiness in some other girl. there are so many out there who are much better than she was.
2007-03-21 00:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by wendy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is, when you really love someone you never forget about them, and you think of them frequently. Seems to me like maybe you should call her. If you feel so strong for her still maybe she is feeling the same way towards you. Inless that is, the realtionship ended badly. I do think that maybe you should have moved on from the feelings being as bad as the first day after. You either need to call her to see if it will happen again, or keep looking for a new girl, shes out there.
2007-03-20 15:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you need to move on, its completely normal to have thoughts and remember special moments after this long time, but chances are shes moved on with her life. What did you do or why did u guys end the relationship??? Do you feel guild? I promise you once u meet someone new you will forget her and move on with your life. Remember something...Girls like confident guys, not Arrogant but Confident and nice. Move On, you will meet someone way better!!!
2007-03-20 19:35:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it takes a while to heal a broken heart .
The longer you are with that person ( and grow with them), the harder it is to heal the heart that yearns for them.. When it is decided that it's no longer there.
2007-03-20 15:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you mess up like that you are better off making a fresh start and looking 4 a new prtner good luck
2007-03-20 17:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by TS100N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snap out of it man...you need to move on with your life and stop wallowing in your self pity. I m sure your ex thinks about you everytime her next one night stand rolls on his condom to get ready for entry into her chocolate starfish.
Tally "she aint missing you at all" Ho!!!
2007-03-20 21:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to stats it takes twice as long to get over someone as the time you spent together good luck !
2007-03-20 15:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up?there seems to be some unfinished business there?if its taking that long to get over her?
2007-03-20 15:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by lees 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal...but there is nothing other than go out with new friends that you can do
2007-03-20 15:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋