I really want to date and kiss a guy, but no guys ever ask me out. I have tried to ask guys out but I get kinda nervous. The guys all think I am too smart so I have tried to be less intelligent. I even started to by cooler clothes and act way differently. Guys just don't like me. I really want to kiss one guy.
2007-03-20 14:57:17 · 8 answers · asked by lil genius 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself. Cooler clothes are fine, but by all means, do NOT dumb yourself down or act differently. "Guys can always tell when you're faking." How old are you? When you get older, like in college, there'll probably be thousands of boys throwing themselves at you.
Smart guys like smart girls. No guys like fake girls.
I know it's frustrating, but you have to wait for guys to catch up with you maturity-wise. Meanwhile, focus on sports, or other extracurriculars. No offense, but you sound a little desperate and/or boy crazy. Tone down that factor, remind yourself that boys are not the most important thing in the world, and let a relationship come to you.
I advise you not to kiss any old body. You want your first kiss to be magical. Or at least with someone you like on the inside and that likes you on the inside.
2007-03-20 15:06:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you have to date a guy find someone who's into the same stuff as you. I met my boyfriend at Tae Kwon Do and we have been going strong for about 7 months now. If you don't have any interests that guys do then ask one of your friends to set you up with someone they know that they think would be good for you. I know people that do that and have been going out for over a year now. Or there is one other way if you have any guy friends that are kind of attractive learn their interests and let everything fall into place from there.
2007-03-20 22:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Boff Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same way for so long-all my friends had been kissed but me.but then i realized that it isnt a race to get kissed.if guys dont ask you out then just think of it as their loss.im sure there are guys that like you though.some people are eye candy to certain people but they are ugly to others and vice-versa.everyone has different tastes.but i promise that youre some ones "eye candy".just wait for the guy for you.dont rush and you'll be happier.some girls date guys just to make out with them and get kissed. you should wait for someone you truely like.and definately do not try to be less smart.that is gift and if guys dont like you because of it then you can pretty much trust that theyre dumb and not good enough for you.
2007-03-20 22:14:11 · answer #3 · answered by Roxy<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am 17 and just had my first kiss... tonight actually, haha. It was an awkward mess on my part. Don't worry, it wasn't that amazing like I expected it to be haha.
I've never been on a date and don't really get asked out by guys. My first kiss was with a guy friend.
Just be patient, it'll happen haha..=]
2007-03-20 22:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by midnitesky00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg don't change how you act and look just for people to like you. if you did get someone by acting different then you probably would end up not liking them because they would likely talk about things that you don't like and you would just get tired of them. i havent kissed a guy either but i am willing to wait until i actually found someone that likes me for me...
don't worry..one day our princes will come
=]
hope it helps
2007-03-20 22:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by =] 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am positive that any male would want to kiss you. There is a male out there for females. I think you should just hold back and just let things happen. Rushing is never a good option for anyhting just because it never turns out good. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-20 22:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by superlucky7777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont say how old you are? if your under 16 plenty time for boys
dont rush into anything, could always play a game whre it involves kissing as long as thats all you do ;)
2007-03-20 22:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the point in my life when it all went to shi-t....I was at the same point as you are now.....the EXACT same point....
2007-03-20 22:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by spock78765 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋