Ok so i am 14 and i honestly think i found true love for now i guess.
and so anyways i have been with this amazing guy for almost a year and we are just great togetha(we have our up n downs) but anyways he runs track so he calls me at like 7;00 everyday and today he didn't have track so he called me at like 7:30.(wondering wat hes doing all that other time) and so now he gave this girl his # to make sure she was safe bcuz this is her 1st time runing on track or wateva. so its bad enough we dnt attend the same school, i mean we spend time go out to the movies(the first guy i went on a date! wit!!!!!) and so now this is where it hurts he got off the phone with me for that girl. oh my god that reallly hurted my feeling, you just dnt know! or could it be karma because i talk on the phone to other guys and
plzz tell me wat to do so i want go the whole night mad i can't call him back because he has to get off at 9:00! im so upset but i guess most of my bf treated me the same wa
2007-03-20 14:56:38 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
***ALSO he knows i talk to other guys but not once has he eva heard me or say ima call u back i'm finna talk to another guy....
thanks 4 the advice im so upset :( and sad to
2007-03-20 14:58:02 · update #1
Learn to spell. I'm so sorry about your dilemma. Study hard and pray you find the right man someday. (He's out there) But don't start looking until you're 21.
2007-03-20 15:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by The Animal Psychiatrist♬♪ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oohhh that is kinda hard...how about tap his phone line and see what he says to this other girl (lol jk) I would just tell him that u talk to other guys but he goes above all the other guys and that u would never ditch him on the phone for another guy...make him feel bad for what he did
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Casually ask what happened to the other girl (act innocent) cuz he said he gave the number to her if she needed help...maybe she just needed help and nothing more and if u guys are really great together, he should tell u the truth and u should trust him (wouldnt that just be perfect)
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The way thta i dont recommend is plan a time for some other guy to call u while u r talking with ur bf and then leave ur bf hanging while u talk to the other guy so he knows how u feel but beware cuz this is not very good for making the relationship stronger but I guess u could do this to get the point across but revenge can be deadly
But dont worry too much about this cuz u r only 14 and u have ur WHOLE life ahead of u
Whatever u do I hope it works out and everything becomes alright again
2007-03-20 15:03:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur extremely over reacting! a million) u have not discovered genuine love! i'm 14 and that i assumed i became in love too until eventually i broke up with my bf and now i actually hate him! 2) so what if he's calling different women. as long as he isn't cheating it is not important- fantastically if u confer with different men! it incredibly is a lil hypocritical do no longer u think of! 3) if it bothers u.s. undesirable that he called a woman then tell him how u experience! if he would not like what u say and he disrespects u then he isn't extremely worth it anyhow! 4) it form of feels to me like ur slightly immature! calling somebody isn't a huge deal! he would have carried out some thing alot worse! What if he went out and had intercourse with the hot song woman! it incredibly is while u might have a reason to submit a question on yahoo! srry for my harshness, although that is genuine! good success woman- it is going to all be only wonderful! communicate it out with him oh and gurlie, do no longer pay attention to cheezer on the genuine! he has no clue what he's speaking approximately!
2016-10-01 06:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by kelchner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14!! Live a little before you try & get all worked up for some guy. And besides the whole point of dating is getting to know someone on a personal level. You're supposed to get to know more than one person, it's just dating not a marriage. Once you understand this you will save yourself years of heart-ache. Control your feelings, don't let them control you. Just have fun!!
2007-03-20 15:06:47 · answer #4 · answered by supreme_kai_no_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off calm yourself...............
call him tomorrow and find out what's up...! ask him if he's into this other girl and if not just chill, trust is one of the most important things in a relationship............. And apparently your all head over heals for this guy, yea I mean a little jealiousy is to be expected but MY GOD WOMAN!! just messin I'd be worried too, but you gatta chill and be strong for Y-O-U!!! You need to know how to love yourself b4 you can love anyone else!!!
Even IF he isn't the one theres more fish in the sea so chill if he's your first bf it may last and it may not but relax don't stress over the little things like this it'll drive you crazy alright...?
still dreaming in idaho
stacy
2007-03-20 15:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy ` B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditching you for another female..who isnt even important..NO. thats scandalous. its okay if she was a friend before you started dating, but she's new and this behavior is not okay. if you cannot trust someone, its not a good relationship. you cant have ANYTHING if you dont have trust. i say you should have a serious talk with him, and try to see him more often. dont act insecure though--that will just run him into her arms. no telling if they are romantic or just friends, so be careful.
2007-03-20 15:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, it sounds like you would be better off without a boyfriend. spend some tim ebeing a 14 year old girl instead of someone's girlfriend. you have so much time left to worry about the opposite sex. wait a few years.
2007-03-20 15:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by erselius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur over-reacting...first of all take a DEEP breath and calm down!! second, do the same thing to him and see how he reacts haha cuz then when he flips out and says something b like i was jus kiddin b/c i was seeing wat u were gonna say, he might get mad but u wanna kno how he would feel if that happened to him...i dnt think it's really karma and think to ur self, do u think that ur a lil jealous rite now?? jus MAYBE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-20 15:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. tell him you're not cool with him talkin to that other girl....if he doesn't take your feelings into consideration, then he's not for you.
2007-03-20 15:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by st_gurl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out if he likes ur bod or ur mind
2007-03-20 14:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by matt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋