i have a girlfriend and i really like her we havent gone out too long but we really care for eachother. sometimes i think shes my soulmate, but i get really jealous when shes around other guys, especially ones shes hooked up with. weve talked about it and she said shed never hurt me but i have a hard time trusting her and she gets really upset when i tell that. shes cheated on one of her boyfriends before.
it seems to me that one guy who she hooked up a couple months ago seems to be popping up everywhere now that she and i are going out. and another guy who she said she really liked for a long time just got back in town and gave her a call, so im pretty stressed right now. i need some help and advice, please help.
2007-03-20 14:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by ADG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump her. You don't need a girlfriend that hangs around her exes.
2007-03-20 15:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about, you are being to up tight about it. He is probalby not really popping up EVERYWHERE you are just a teeny bit too paranoid right now! Try to trust you girlfriend,but if you keep telling her that you don't trust her around other guys or something like that she will think that ur acting too controlling and she'll get really irritated. its really okay, you have got to stop worrying. SO she's cheated on one of her boifriends before? she must have realized taht was a bad idea, and she probably won't do it again. Just listen to yourself, you said that this guy keeps popping up everywhere, but you also said that you two really care for each other. if you two really DO care for each other and are supposedly soulmates, she would probalby never do that to you.
2007-03-20 22:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by MiSSkASiA♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say trust her until she give you a reason not too. If you do not trust her you need to let her go b/c it is always gonna be a problem with anything she does. You need trust and communication for a relationship to work. I don't know if she is cheating or what but if you suspect some thing it will drive you crazy. If you stay u will be hurt for as long as yall are together, if you leave it will hurt for a while but you will bounce back eventually.
2007-03-20 22:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Niddy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things come to mind. First, If you can't trust her, dump her. Maybe she's not ready to settle down and you're just her latest fling. Secondly, if you're the jealous type (which can turn into an abusive type, or at the very least make her feel smothered), she'll not want to stay with you.
2007-03-20 22:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by pleaserallday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude relax ....... unless she gives u a reason not to trust her then u should remember u can drive someone away with jealous behavor
2007-03-20 21:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Robert C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to talk to your girlfriend about this. if it goes unsaid, it could get worse. if she can't be sympathetic to how you feel, then she's not your soulmate.
2007-03-20 21:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by st_gurl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋