No one in my school seems to notice me. Everyone around me has a boyfriend/girlfriend, and I feel left out. I want someone to love, but it seems impossible in highschool. The only person that I like is a guy that is lets say taken. This whole dating and realationship situation seems hopeless for me. How can I find love, or at least lust?
I am 5'5" and I have long dark brown hair and blue grey eyes. Im a pretty girl, and I have a quite a bit of friends.
HELP!!
2007-03-20 14:50:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel the same way. Exactly the same way and I am in college. Try and ask one of your friends to maybe set you up with someone. Not really a blind date but like maybe have one of them introduce you to one of their guy friends and see where it goes from there. My friend did that for me in high school with a girl. Eventhough we broke up I still remember her to this day. Good luck:-)
2007-03-20 14:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by trancemix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How you do'in? (Joey Voice)
Look at the bright side, at least you haven't been dumped!
I am just like you! I am a modestly good looking person, (the main difference is that I am a guy, and I am 17) with no girlfriend (never had one, thank you very much) and I like a nearly impossible case. But I found that one way to combat the loneliness is to find something nearly as rewarding. (Exercise/Martial arts, Its not very easy to be depressed or self pitying when you are either sleeping or hitting something.)
And I can view it from this side in the way that I have so far beat my teenage hormones and resisted all of popular culture by NOT having a girlfriend! We are the best of society! The Elite!
2007-03-20 15:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by O.G. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry you have plenty of time ,concentrate on your schoolwork ,ask your friends round for a study evening and include boys as well. This opens up a lot of avenues,because they are your friends first .Friendship and Romance go hand in hand.Do not be over anxious smile,be happy ,enjoy your freedom you will be sorry when,you lose it.
2007-03-20 15:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsay Jane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. I know the feeling of loneliness.
But that is better than what happened to me, be with a girl 4 years & it turn out all lies.
You can find a good partner, but just take your time, don't rush into it.
2007-03-20 15:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably just intimidated by your standards. Do you have a lot of guy friends? They may not feel comfortable talking to you, if you aren't being yourself to attract guys. Be their friend first, with subtle hints of wanting more. Once a guy's your friend, he will most likely date you if you let him know that you want to date him.
And trust me, you don't want love at this point in your life. Don't let anything tie you down!
2007-03-20 14:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sally 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe people are just imdimidated of you!
or maybe some guys think that they could never get you!
it could be that,
or maybe you are arrogant and think too highly of yourself.
you could possibly be unatractive [which is unlikely]
because even the gross girls get boyfriends.
you should flirt around a little more,
give out your number,
and hang out with guys more often.
but dont be too nice to the boys if you know what i mean.
nobody likes an easy s..l u t.
2007-03-20 14:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be as pretty as you think you are. If you lower your standards enough, you will find a guy who will be absolutely delighted to love you, please you and think about you from the time he wakes up from a dream about you, til he goes to sleep while hugging a pillow and pretending it's you. If people see you with a boyfriend, they will stop thinking you're a lesbian.
2007-03-20 15:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by moonbeam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be more open with people tell them what ya feel !! Like the old sayin goes if ya dont ask then u wont get !! even if its like u ask a guy to buy u a drink or something it will help get things movin for u .
good luck with it all
Cheers Dan
2007-03-20 14:59:32 · answer #8 · answered by nofukenwurys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prepare your self and merely take a seat and tell them. they're needless to say going to be disappointed, fairly because you're so some distance alongside, yet they'll nonetheless love you. in case you're petrified of ways they'll react in step with hazard you could leave them a notice or text fabric them and tell them you opt to talk while they cool off, that way they understand yet they would be extra adjusted to the belief and could be extra open to talk extremely of freaking out. reliable success
2016-11-27 02:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by kimbler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait, the right guy will sow up in time.
2007-03-20 14:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by Lfeata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋