I'm in a relationship where the "good times" are really good, but the "bad times" are awful. I don't know what to do; I don't know at what point it's supposed to be over. I'm scared to be by myself, but I don't know if the relationship is meant for someting more...
2007-03-20 14:47:15 · 26 answers · asked by Ian D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's time to end a relationship when you ask yourself 'at what point it's supposed to be over'.
The way I see this, you are pushing your limits and are trying to see how far you will take it.
Love should not be difficult. It should be fun and easy. If the bad times are heavier than the good times, it's time you consider doing something to save yourself from this.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 14:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Shaana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the bad times are awful, they probably won't get better. Relationships have become difficult now that women want the same as men which is the right to enjoy all parts of life whether you are in a relationship or not. I am not blaming women; I am saying that mariage used to work when women didn t mind being left at home for periods of time while men worked and then went bar hopping or play a sport. Now women want that too. Try celibacy; it s pretty cool. I like it much more and I tried both styles of life.
2007-03-20 14:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lois L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is not 50/50. It is 100% on both ends. You know when its time to let go if everything is great during the good times, but when they are bad the person is really showing you their true colors. You need some one who is going to be with you no matter what. Who will cry with you , laugh , and give you strength when you need it, and vice- versa. Sometimes you need to be alone to have time to think what you are looking for. If the person is not willing to help you are change for the better than you need to let go. Remember that you are special and you do not need to settle.
2007-03-20 14:56:39 · answer #3 · answered by spanishfly9582 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are the good times so good that you can get past the bad times? If so, it is not time for you to let go. Sounds like you've lost control and if you have things will only get worse. Let it go and find someone else. By the by, what is this scared to be by yourself? If it is the only thing keeping you two together, it is NOT enough.
2007-03-20 14:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that good times only mask other problems in a relationship. If the bad times are really awful then its time.
2007-03-20 14:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say, Go By Your Heart, if you both love each other and are willing to work through the bad times, then you are growing in your lessons, but if neither of you are serving no worthwhile purpose with each other then it's time to move on. Your heart knows! But be honest or it won't work! Good Luck!
2007-03-20 15:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by dlspeed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has there good and bad times, it's what makes a relationship. Only you will know when it's time to leave, Maybe you should ask this to you partner.
2007-03-20 14:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by rn_strk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the good times are better than the bad stick it out. If the bad times out weigh the good than it might be time. If you don't want to be alone talk to other people, till you find someone who makes you happy.
2007-03-20 14:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Niddy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I question a man who doesn't like to be alone. You need to evaluate that, because being happy with yourself means being alone. I would find out if you really do love her. Does she make you happy? And, why do you fight? Is it because of something you are doing? Or her? And, if you are to blame, then admit your mistakes and change. People tend to focus on the things that they do right but I feel we should focus more on our mistakes so that we stop doing them for more success in relationships.
2007-03-20 14:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what going on....if your happy then y should it end? every relationship has good & bad times but if the bad times out number the good ones then its probally time to end it....
2007-03-20 14:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by confused_mexican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋