I try to hang out with this guy, but he doesn't notice me. He is like way taller than me and he is popular. He has been nice to me in the past, but he is kinda a jerk to my friends. I still like him. What should I do?
2007-03-20 14:45:28 · 13 answers · asked by lil genius 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are the right age, and your friends don't mind, make a move. brush up against him lightly or touch his knee or upper leg (as if accidental) to make him know you're interested. Don't come off as a slut, just make subbtle moves that imply that you like him. Talk to him in a less friendly way and in a more intimate way (caring). Listen to what he says and coment and relate to it. Don't be afraid to put yourself out there when you think that you're ready and when you think he is too. He probably does notice you, but either
1) is too afraid to go for it
2) doesn't think that you want to
I say go for it as long as your friends are okay, and wheter you two are togheter or not, try to tell him to be nicer to your firends (do this after you hook-up if you can).
2007-03-20 14:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's tall and popular. I'm guessing he's shallow also. Well, if you two are friends, then just get to know him a little bit better. Also, he seems kinda rude since he's a jerk to your friends. I think if he really liked you, then he would be cool with your friends because it's obvious that to a girl, her friends are everything.
2007-03-20 21:54:51 · answer #2 · answered by alwayzder4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, move on. you'll get over him and he doesnt seem like he is the kinda guy you should go out with anyways. I mean, he doesnt like your friends and doesnt hang out with you. the fact that hes way taller than you and popular shouldnt make a difference. AND try your best to find a guy that LIKES your friends, trust me, it makes everything much smoother.
2007-03-20 21:51:11 · answer #3 · answered by youngandinsane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ive had the same problem before i think if a guy dont like your frinds hes nothing cuz how could you go out wit somone whos a jerk to your friends??..But if you still like him invite him to the movies or somthing but a scarey one so you can get close!!..
2007-03-20 21:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by BABY GURL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you care too much about how he treats you, other than how he treats others in general, you shouldnt settle for somone like that, you could get alot better. And the past is the past, people change. I think you should tell him how you feel, if you think he is even mature enough to listen and take in what you have to say, and i think you should try being freinds first.
2007-03-20 21:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by xox Rebekah xox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a jerk to your friend then maybe you shouldn't like him. His pride might be as big as a zepplin because of his popularity. On the other hand, he may just appear popular to you. Superficial popularity is not uncommon.
2007-03-20 21:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by kicking_back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm well i don't want you to get your feelings hurt by this guy, so i say find someone who's more available. if you really like him you could start hanging out w/ his friends, ditch your "loser" friends and become "popular..then flirt with him all the time. or you could go to a party you know he's gonna be at and hook up with him...that will get his attention. but he might not like you like a GF just someone to hook up with....hmmm tough 1
2007-03-20 21:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some times you have to hit them up side the head with a 2X4 just to get their attention. He will notice you from then on.
2007-03-20 21:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a jerk to you? If so, have nothing to do with him.
Here is a secret- most men are clueless- they cant read subtlety. Be very direct- tell him you like him- he's not a psychic..
2007-03-20 21:49:17 · answer #9 · answered by OctopusGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him notice u.. flirt look cute everyday flirt with other guys around him n see if he cares if he doesnt care then move on
2007-03-20 21:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by xobemine190 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋