if you are somewhat serious but not in a committed relationship.....and you told them in the beginning that you'd like to keep options open right now.... and they are not too fond of a committment either...HELLPP PLEEASSE!!!
2007-03-20 14:44:30 · 9 answers · asked by dahotnezz22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think so if neither is really that committed then there shouldnt be any problem i think
2007-03-20 14:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by nickname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's assume you don't consider it cheating. Let's assume you did it because you thought it was okay.
Well, tell her/him about it. See what happens. Either you're on the same page and it's fine, or you're not on the same page and the relationship will probably end. But that's okay, because you weren't on the same page -- better to get it out in the open now.
What constitutes cheating in a relationship is determined by the two people in that relationship, and nobody else.
2007-03-20 14:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by big_bowl_of_meat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's sort of cheating, no matter what both of you say you shouldn't be together then if you dont want to commit....If you guys are just friends with benefits then thats kind of different, but the thing is no matter what you are feelings get involved somehow, one way or another....id be careful about it...if your going to be sleepign around then i would break the dating situation with the other person
2007-03-20 14:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by ~small town girl~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating.... if you were technically an "item" at the time of your affair... then yes you cheated on her.. even though you said you wanted to keep your options open.. which just means your not truly committed to her either...
2007-03-20 14:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you situation really sounds sort of like a "side relationship till i get a real one." Trust me, you're not planning this well for yourself. But it's considered cheating even if it's not about commitment.
But....do what you gotta do!
2007-03-20 14:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ms* Shae* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is unless you discussed that you would be seeing other people as well and both agreed that was fine
2007-03-20 14:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by countrygrl278 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because u had sex with another person.
2007-03-20 14:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try and find a loop hole or dance around the truth. u did it u cheated. cheatin is cheatin
2007-03-20 14:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask the, yes. it is
2007-03-20 14:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by in the city of blinding lights 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋