i love my girl friend but i love another girl too but i cant tell my girlfrien that if i do shell hate me for life! i neeed help!
2007-03-20 14:43:47 · 13 answers · asked by gameboykendall 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
face REALITY!! u cant TRULY love two girls at once!!U have to make up ur mind..u have to chose between the two of them..who has always been there for u? who makes u feel special whenever u r around her? Who can u see spending ur life with? U cant just keep on lying to urself and them cuz if they find out u can say goodbye to both of them because they will not tolerate it for sure! If u truly loved one of them, u would let the other one go before it is too late...cuz right now u are cheating on ur gf with the other girl and that is an obvious sign that u dont love her cuz if u loved her, truly loved her, then u would let the other gurl go and stop feeling that way towards her. I know it is hard but u have to do it
Good Luck! I hope this helps!
2007-03-20 14:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surely not! Marriage is approximately dedication. If he's not waiting to be sure to you, (whether he says he's) then marriage is out of the question suitable now. Marriage is approximately 2 people who love one yet another and prefer to spend the remainder of their lives jointly. I actually does not marry a guy who had thoughts for yet another female. tell your boyfriend/fiance which you do not sense suitable that he loves somebody else while he's dedicated to you. 'reason in case you in basic terms marry this guy, he will nevertheless have thoughts for this different female. meaning much less time for you 2 to be jointly. Marriage is a extensive ingredient, that is different from relationship. helpful, there are men who've dissimilar girlfriends. not many, and that is against a lot of human beings's morals to realize this, whether it occurs. yet marriage is distinctive, and your boyfriend needs to admire that. Wait till his thoughts waver for her, till then, carry of the marriage! do not rush issues. sure, youv'e been relationship for 6 years yet undergo in recommendations that there are grammas and grampas who get married! purely use your elementary experience, and solid luck with the full ingredient! -P@!g!3 :o)
2016-10-19 05:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should see if the other girl even likes you first.
I don't think that you would want to break up with your girlfriend and then later find out that the other girl doesn't even like you.
So i think that you should see how it goes with your girlfriend and see if everything works out before you move onto the next girl.
Good luck
2007-03-20 14:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by =] 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make a list of pros and cons. the one w/ the more pros u should get to know. if its the other girl, and u hang out w/ her DON'T FLIRT W/ HER!!!! thats the biggest mistake you could make. when you find out the one you like more, go 4 it. (wut i mean by pros and cons if u don't get it is the good things about each of them are pros, and the bad things are cons) and if ur girlfriend gets mad at you 4 hanging out with a different girl just tell her you're just friends and try not to hang out w/ the other girl as much.
2007-03-20 14:50:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you too, she will be very angry with you, but not for life. Now if you play both of them, they will find out and they will both hate you. Do the right thing.
2007-03-20 14:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to be honest only if you are ready to end your relationship since who really knows how your girlfriend will take, just be honest and it's really all in her hands.
2007-03-20 14:48:26 · answer #6 · answered by nutty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...that's a big situation...but i think you need to stay with your girlfriend...you'll just have to be in love with this other girl and not say or do anything about it...if u do, it guarantees that you and your girlfriend will be apart for a while. and you don't want that, right?
2007-03-20 14:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by st_gurl13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For land's sakes! You don't love the other girl! Focus on one at a time! Sheesh!
2007-03-20 14:46:45 · answer #8 · answered by The Animal Psychiatrist♬♪ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who do you "love" more.Don't be a player.Just watch you'll end up with neither of the girls.Whom you "love".
2007-03-20 14:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by bigdwenz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out wut u want n then figure out who has more of those qualities its not fair to ur gf to love some1 else
2007-03-20 14:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by xobemine190 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋