when someone breaks your heart. I had a deep crush on a guy at work and he ended up being a not so nice person. The thing is I see him at work everyday since he sits near me and we used to be close friends.
2007-03-20 14:42:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be thankful and proud of yourself that you found out he wasn't so nice before you got more involved. Just try to busy yourself with other things, and keep in mind it's for the best. Remind yourself when your mind wanders to him that you deserve better. You have the right to choose who your friends with. Do what's right for you.
2007-03-20 14:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by jeni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else to have a crush on, you will be so obsessed that you will forget all about the other guy. also you can try to keep telling yourself what jerk he was, don't sit and think about all the good times you had together, think of all the times he hurt you, and say to yourself "man, that guy sucks, i deserve better' also your friends are always there to help you through.
2007-03-20 21:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by MiSSkASiA♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i had the same problem, i used to like a boy in my pe class and he was a jerk... he thought i was ugly and said stuff behind my back... and broke my heart and later i was looking for an icon of broken heart and found a quote saying "if your heart was broken you would be dead" and i realize that boys come and go and there nothing but jerks... never change and the one are nice are your friends; they'll do anything to make you happy... just forget him, if he sits next to you let him but don't look at him or do anything that will hurt you becuz u liked a jerk
2007-03-20 21:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Cupckake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about him in that way. Replace him in your heart, whether it be with someone else or chocolate or a friend, or even yourself. Don't ignore him, just condition yourself to the fact he is a jerk and your cooler than that. But sometimes jerks are fun to hang with.
2007-03-20 21:47:08 · answer #4 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts when you break up with someone that you care about but eventually the pain will be go away. It just takes time. so just hang on because before you know it things will get better. hope this sorta of help. : )
2007-03-20 21:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Defiance_Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard ... and specially when u work with him... well the advice i can give u is .. its just a crush right? u didn't date him ?then it should be easy.. try to keep yourself busy.. go out.. hang out friends.. and try not to run into him until u know u can handle seeing him..
2007-03-20 21:49:17 · answer #6 · answered by lblnx22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start see some one go out have fun . it always hard to go though this but it will get better just get out there and find you that great guy.
2007-03-20 21:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u just learned the hard way not to get romantically involved at work. cuase if it dont pan out u got to c each other all the time
2007-03-20 21:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just avoid him as much as possible and just meet new people... once you do and you fall for other guys n stuff later on the presence of this not-so-nice guy wont even bother you
2007-03-20 21:46:30 · answer #9 · answered by nickname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kinda stuck on the same subject, but one thing tat gets her off my mind are my interest. i guess u can start seeing other guys
2007-03-20 21:46:10 · answer #10 · answered by Osphronemus G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋