I have this boyfriend that I really love but I only see him once a week.
Whenever we see each other we hug and kiss.
We have the kind of relationship where we hardly talk. At times when I see him I act like I am shy. Im really shy around guys!!!!
What should I do to improve our relationship.I really love this boy with all of my heart!!!
2007-03-20 14:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by Yazmine F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would try to first spend more time with him, if at all possible. It is very hard to get to know someone completely when you rarely see them.
About the talking, try to open up the best you can. You'll be less shy the more you get to see him. It's very important in a relationship to have open and honest communication and VERY important to feel that you can talk to each other about anything. He needs to open up with you more too. Try finding a common interest (a hobby, a game, politics, whatever) and participate in that together. It will give you something to talk about that will be easier on the both of you. Let him feel special and let him know you want to know more about him and let him know more about you.
Remember, lust comes on very quickly, however, true love takes a very long time and happens after you have been with your partner through the good and bad and seen them at their most vulnerable, and they have seen you at your most vulnerable. :)
2007-03-20 14:43:00 · answer #1 · answered by Inali K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you could definately use communication, call him or instant messaging, write letters, ect. if you really love this boy, you don't want an all physical relationship. stop being so shy around him! if you love him and he loves you then there is nothing you should be shy about around him.
2007-03-20 21:40:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you only see him once a week?
Just talk to him. Open your mouth and let things come out. If he's right for you, what you say won't matter. (That took me about 40 years to learn!)
2007-03-20 21:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear yazmine
im a guy so i know about guy stuff if your shy around him dont worry about it its just a sign of respect and if you love him with all your heart thats ok too so theres nothing to be nervous about
2007-03-20 21:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by gameboykendall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go places with him like ice skating and anything outdoors..it will help you to find something to talk about, you will eventually get over your akwardness and shyness and you will have better communication--just do more fun activities
2007-03-20 21:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by Miss_Lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe try e-mailing, snail mailing in the middle of the week.. try to get to know eachother more.. have a group date type of thing wher eyou and him invite some friends over and play games where you get to know eacohter more... get the game who-nu (it's a cranium game) and it's really fun, really easy and great for getting to know people better.. =) message me for more ideas... and/or to give me more info I can try to help you more.. =)
2007-03-20 21:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that this relationship is going anywhere, babe. Just talk to him like he's your family, or your best friend, It will make things more comfortable, and easier to handle.
2007-03-20 21:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by DramaChic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try to make more time in your week to see him.
2007-03-20 21:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by beebee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe....boost up your confidence by playing the Sims II
2007-03-20 21:39:59 · answer #9 · answered by Paula 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you told him how you feel about him?
2007-03-20 21:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by psst..its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋