I have been single for three years now. yes I do other things' to occupy my time, but I get lonely.
People ask why don't I have a girlfriend, your not a bad looking
guy.
Then people say you have to charm them and tell them what they like.
or I have to be up beat and out going, why cant I just be myself, but when I do that I still don't get one. Hell, they don't even want me as a friend.
and realizing things like this causes me not to smile sometimes.
So I really need mature answers and please be polite I'm serious.
Im not saying I'm desperate, but if I wasn't I wouldn't ask this question, so i must be.
By the way is there anybody on here willing to give themselve a chance to get to know me?
thank you!
2007-03-20 14:23:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Besides looks,we are twins.People say and ask me the same things.I wish I had the answers for both of us.Just wanted to let you know you have a "brother in lonely-land".Good luck out there!!!!!!
2007-03-20 14:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by rockman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what your are not doing. But we know you are not doing it. I know that woman like confidence. They can tell when a man is confident. They also want a man who know what they want. If that is not you I still believe you should be yourself b/c when you show them that you have to keep it up and if it is not you later on in the relationship a female will be able to tell. That will cause alot of problems for you and you still won't be happy. Good Luck.
2007-03-20 21:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Niddy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are trying too hard?? I'm sure you've heard this a million times so let me be one million and one. Be yourself and let things happen as they happen. The right one is out there for you--its just not meant to be right now. My only other guess is you are setting your standards too high and the one for you is right in front of your face.....
2007-03-20 21:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i too felt the way you feel back sometime,, then i started getting into things that made me happy. concentrate on you now and not on making other people happy. you forgot yourself in this one. girls like someone that is sure of where he is going. it seems you don't know. how can they hold on to someone that is not sure of themselves. girls want assurance in a mans sense of being.. be a man and be positive of yourself. they will notice believe me.. lots of luck.. and please never ask someone to like you it's weak buddy it's weak..
2007-03-20 21:42:51 · answer #4 · answered by quitelovableman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋