I 43 and my husband 55 married 3 years and no kid. I was divorced and he never married.We basicly dont have anything in common but if each respects the other,we can still live happily.I am a musician and he never listen to any music for 3 years..... I really dont want kid nor adopt due to physical,mental and financial concerns and our concepts will be very different toward taking care of the kid. For example,I cannot throw away a moldy cutting board,no air con in 90 degree summer......However,he is taught by his family-elder sisters-that no kid means no hope. What do you think or any suggestions?
2007-03-20 14:10:07 · 5 answers · asked by Carol H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It doesn't matter what other people say. Your marriage is you marriage. However take this into consideration. You and your husband don't have anything in common. You are different. I think having a child will just start huge problems for you both and you really don't want to drag an innocent child into the equation right? A happy child starts with happy parents. You both have to agree on parenting styles and dicipline. All that jazz. Good luck
2007-03-20 14:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it is really how you think. You can still have a happy married life and enjoy each other's company and not having children at all but I think children are a blessing and sometimes, I think it is not our choice if we want children or not. It is God's time and not ours.
2007-03-20 14:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you married if you don't have anything in common?
My husband and I have different interests but we have our love for each other in common! Children shouldn't make or a break a relationship, they are an added bonus!!!!!!! As for the cutting board.................what the ****?????????????
2007-03-20 14:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His family is ridiculous.
You both figure out what you want your life to be like and live the way you want. Then pour yourselves into each other and you will find something that most people never find.
2007-03-20 14:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by gamma_maker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your definition of being happy???
2007-03-20 14:28:18 · answer #5 · answered by albaloo47 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋