I want a man to prove to me that ALL men are not the same
2007-03-20 14:07:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hope you do find an honest man, there are some out there. Good luck!
2007-03-20 14:11:15 · answer #1 · answered by JAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sad thing is these days it seems the same can be true for both genders .......
with everything being so "freewill".......reasons for honesty, integrity and trust are many times unfound......
am amazed at just listening to my teen age daughter talking about her friends and how they cheated on the person they were dating or "going with"(whatever that is these days) ....
when things the younger generation see at home or thru TV and movies shows them no difference - they are taking in the thought that that is the way relationships are supposed to be.
Used to the person you desired to date was someone you were considering a perspective one for your future mate and other parent of your children.
It was not all about how many can I have sex with this week.....or let me get with them to get back at the ex with.
Love, romance, respect and togetherness were totally different issues than what they are today.
No wonder so many young men feel they are not responsible for the young ones they help bring into the world......saw and felt no real commitment from the get go other than "bagging the babe".
Wake up parents and show your youngsters what love and respect for the person you love and commit your life to are!
Young folks take heed that you want your life and what should be lifelong commitment to be with another person.
2007-03-20 21:16:39 · answer #2 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really think any men can prove to that they are honest i don't think they could do that. If they prove that they're honest still after that what happens. You think they will always stay honest with you. Well forget about it. I 'm in this problem since with my husband for ten years. They never change or be honest with women.
2007-03-20 21:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Ashisweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men arent the same, you just have to choose carefully and take your time. know your man's lifestyle and compare it to yours before you get commtted. alot of guys are jerks and just want some action, but not all men. time is of the essence. give your man some space, but not too much or he'll get away from you. the biggest mistake is thinking all men are the same. if you start a relationship with that type of mentality, you're not giving him a chance. be patient and choose your words carefully. sometimes honesty isn't the topic, it's loyalty.
2007-03-20 21:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dana D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear black_butterfly8721:
You have presented a very good question unfortunately I don't have an answer for you". However; when it comes to "YOU" don't negotiate what you want in a man or give up because he is out there and he is also wanting in a relationship what you are looking for. I believe that there are really more of the sincere types than not.
Best wishes,
2007-03-20 21:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an absurd proposition. We're all the same eh? Gay ones and straight ones? Old ones and young ones? Fat ones and thin ones?
We're all different. I think you're going for the same type of guy all the time and wondering why its blowing up in tour face. Definition of insanity - doing the same thing and expecting the same results. Try and find someone different, and I'm sure you'll find your "proof".
2007-03-20 21:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by deucelow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date other men than assholes, i cant prove it to you because if i did id break my girlfriends heart...im being honest to her, and i will be honest to ever girl i am ever involved with. i dont want to be cheated on so therefor i will not cheat on the girl i am in a realtionship with. so u can choose to believe me or not. but there are honest men, dont date the non honest ones.
2007-03-20 21:11:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all men feel that way..the trick is to find one who doesn't .. i think you have a good goal. just do not let yourself get caught up in the s.h.i.t caused by the few you have known. they can cause you to hate .and hate is wrong. live and learn , and then move on.
2007-03-20 21:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by pbear i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for everyman, but I am completely honest in relationships!
2007-03-20 21:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by eerilybasic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Insecure people lie, men and women.
2007-03-20 21:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋