I actually want my bf to be at least a lil bit jealous...other guys tend to hit on me and flirt with me when they know that I'm dating somone. I tell my bf about it and how much it bothers me but he gives no reaction..I feel like if he actually were jealous it mean(in a weird way) that he cares about me. If the other guys thought that he was jealous they would be less tempted to hit on me.Is this wrong??
2007-03-20 14:07:41 · 11 answers · asked by avaughn09 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not testing him. I just want him to tell the guys to stop because they obviously don't listen to me. I don't allow anyone to hit on me. It annoys the hell out of me. I just want to feel like my bf cares enough to stop guys that are conitnously hitting on me. I love him and i wouldn't want to ruin my relatinship playing games
2007-03-20 14:21:35 · update #1
thanks for ur honest answers though. i can't be critical of opinions i asked for...
2007-03-20 15:47:15 · update #2
i think he isn't jealous because he trusts you and he may get a Little jealous but doesn't show it
2007-03-20 14:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Rhi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually if other 'guys' are hitting on you - it's something you are allowing to continue.
Your boyfriend may actually be jealous, but maybe it's more of him being upset with you. If this is something that always happens, then you need to look into making changes to help out your boyfriend, esp. if it's a serious relationship.
If it's not a serious relationship he's not going to care either way.
2007-03-20 14:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you he is probably somewhat jealous. Some people just handle jealousy well and don't make a big deal out of small matters. That totally beats him throwing a fit. I would assume this is just his nature. He's probably is laid back on other issues, as well. Be thankful.
2007-03-20 14:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little jealousy in a relationship is a good thing. It's nice to know that someone is afraid to lose you. This is not wrong at all.
2007-03-20 14:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are playing games. It isn't a good thing to do because you are risking your relationship over testing the guy.
2007-03-20 14:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not wrong, but weird. here:
get all the guys together giving better treats other than a date. for example, a trip to a water park, most expensive restaurant, etc.
that's all i can think of.
2007-03-20 14:15:49 · answer #6 · answered by Cookiez and Milkツ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...my friend used to be with a guy that was the same way..she didn't feel like he cared about her because it didn't seem like he cared that guys were flirting with her..i think i'd feel the same way...you want him to be jealous because then it'd actually seem like he cared..which isn't wrong at all..
2007-03-20 14:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by Jaden's Mommy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no its not wrong. women want to feel needed and wanted. i know how you feel. if a guy acts like he doesnt care who comes and takes you away, maybe you need to investigate him. is he being faithful and respectful towards you? or are you just, i hate to say it, something to poke on? you have a right to feel how you do.
2007-03-20 14:13:09 · answer #8 · answered by janishippiechick@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prolly likes the attention that he get for dating you
2007-03-20 14:11:53 · answer #9 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must trust you- that's a good thing
2007-03-20 14:10:55 · answer #10 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋