Does it matter on man's status with this? I am un circumcised; wasn't religious, parents could not afford it. I got made fun of growing up by other guys, calling me names in locker room like "Turtleneck" "Jobbysmasher" and the like. I don't think it's affected my ability with women, in fact, some say they prefer it that way. I kind of don't care, but wanted to know if it matters to women - don't hold back the comments, i genuinely want to know.
2007-03-20 14:05:44 · 14 answers · asked by glyph 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
couple people asked how guys saw it? can't help that in highschool locker room. Also, if not in love, then what would a woman think. Lastly, getting mixed reviews here - what if I got partial circumcision - half and half if thats possible?
2007-03-20 14:23:46 · update #1
Well, I'm not a woman but I hope you'll nonetheless find my response informative.
For whatever reason, it's considered much more viril to HAVE your foreskin than to be circumcised. It's just an anomoly of our society perhaps, but it may also have some basis in our genetic makeup over the eons [or however long your religion allows you to prescribe to] as an admirable trait in a mate. Some people are biased against foreskin, but this is usually due to their upbringing [eg: brainwashing during adolescence that foreskin is dirty or obscene].
There are actually many techniques, surgical and non-, that allow men to regain their foreskin. Both sexes, from what I've read, proclaim that sexual acts are much more enjoyable *with* an uncircumcised man vs. with someone who is "cut".
I have a friend who, not unlike yourself, endured some teasing through his adolescence and always felt ashamed of being uncut. It was only after he'd ungone a circumcision at 29 that he told me about it. I was shocked he'd done this, yet he never told any of his friends how he felt before he had the surgery performed. He now regrets it terribly, and is wanting to regrow it. If it matters at all, again based on my research, I'm envious of uncircumcised men, and wish that my parents would have spared me "the snip" when I was born. I'm far from alone in that respect, based on all of the text out there on the matter.
There ya go. Good luck~
PS: I see negative responses on here from folks that likely, apparently, haven't had an opportunity to experience one au'naturale, and are therefore giving you their biased opinion. Don't sweat it bro - embrace "you" as you are.
2007-03-20 14:24:01 · answer #1 · answered by gtimandan 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Safe sexual practices remain essential, but circumcised men may have a slightly lower risk of certain sexually transmitted diseases — including HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, and human papillomavirus (HPV), which causes genital warts. Some strains of HPV also cause cervical cancer and this is an important one since my friend's boyfriend was uncircumcised and we believe it caused her the HPV and cervical cancer .
Possible complications of adult circumcision include a change in sensation during intercourse, bleeding, poor cosmetic results and infection.
And honestly, it's not a pretty sight!
2007-03-20 14:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by shepardj2005 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would prefer having a man be circumcised because that's the only way I've seen it and of course the health thing.
How did these guys see your "johnson?" That's kinda weird.
2007-03-20 14:12:24 · answer #3 · answered by First Lady 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I haven't had any experience with circumcised or uncircumcised, but I really don't think it would matter. Either way you need to keep yourself clean... maybe it's my lack of experience that makes me think "why does it matter" but I don't see how a little tiny bit of skin would make any difference. Don't worry, you'll find a woman who appreciates you for more than your penis :)
2007-03-20 14:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I married my husband when he was uncircumcised. It was not an issue for me, but he eventually got circumcised. Like an earlier answerer said, some women prefer it for cleanliness sake, but I knew my husband took care of himself hygienically speaking...and he was monogamous...so it was not a problem for me.
2007-03-20 14:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by kathy_is_a_nurse 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In all honesty if you are or if you are not should not matter. That person should care about you for you and not your c*ck. If anybody gives you sh*t (male OR female) they are of no importance to you. They are shallow and you don't need to give them the time of day.
2007-03-20 14:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by SuzyQ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as you have been taught to keep yourself clean (and I'm sure you have ! ) what's the issue. Both my son and my husband are uncircumsised, and both are ok. In fact, isn't it more the norm these days for guys to be uncircumsised? And as for performance issues - who cares? As long as you know what to do to arouse your partner and keep her satisfied, who really cares what your penis looks like ?
2007-03-20 14:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL!! When I think of uncircumcised I think "diseases"...that's the 1st thing that comes to my mind. Me personally I prefer a man to be circumsised I think it looks better!!
2007-03-20 14:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
i don't like it generally, but if i luv my man and im in the mood it wouldn't matter. i heard getting circumcized when ur older is painful, and it's not clean or something, but ne who i don't really like it but it depends on the man ;) good luck
2007-03-20 14:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by jennifo! the nympho 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Exotic, exciting, new and unrestrained. Misunderstood, etc. It shouldn't matter, the only reason the Jews do this is because it's cleaner. So no smegma, dude, just a clean and fresh sword, please!!!
2007-03-20 14:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by cubcowboysgirl 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋