Okay, first off, I am 17, 18 in july and he is 20. Is that a horrible age difference?
And second, He and I are in a class together at school... At first I caught him looking over at me, and I was attracted the first time I layed eyes on him. He often looks over at me throughout the class, and when I leave he watches me. One time on our way home he seemed to be racing me through the intersection. Is he interested or am I just seeing what I want? He and I have been talking online and he has asked me to hang out but on both occasions I have had a previous engagment that has prevented me from seeing him. My biggest problem is, he is the guy who meets every last standard on my lists of "wants" for a boyfriend let alone a husband. I feel like if he gets away then I'm going to loose the guy of my dreams. Ever aspect of him is a quality that I have sought after and held out for... I really like him a lot. Help!!
What should I do?
2007-03-20 13:49:33 · 8 answers · asked by littlegid' 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him out..dont let him get away....its a perfect age difference...I am so jealous..I hope everything wok out for u both..and you have beautiful wonderful children.
2007-03-27 11:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he still in high school and he's 20? That's not good. Not horrible but not good. Lots of things happen when you leave school and are on your own - give yourself a chance to have that freedom. One thing you are forgetting is that 18 is young and the list of standards you are talking about changes. I guarantee that. You could have the dumbest most basic thing on that list of standards: 'Must be breathing. Must like animals. Must be good to look at.' and I STILL guarantee that list will look different if you have to make a list like that 4 years from now.
So, now, don't rush. If he's racing you through an intersection, he's not a good driver. Is that on your list?
2007-03-28 18:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are 17 and he is 20, why are you two in the same classes?
You will probably love more than one man in your lifetime. Don't worry about this one if it doesn't pan out. Just let it play out, see what happens. Don't obsess about the future - enjoy today.
2007-03-28 17:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's asked you out, twice, and you're still not sure if he's interested?
2007-03-28 02:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still 17 and planning to get married?! Live each day by day dont live in the future because life is too short. So date him and have fun its not like your getting married!
2007-03-28 09:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test out the waters first, get to know him before you take it to the next step...
2007-03-28 15:24:25 · answer #6 · answered by ì ɠσт α вìɠ єɠσ, sσ ὠнαт! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do is ask him out. Say it casually like hey, I feel kindda bad I couldn't make it last week, how about we go out this friday? or something like that.
Btw, 2 years is not a horrible age difference :)
2007-03-20 22:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Akai 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
(-_- Oh god.) Just ask him out. And no I'm not mean.
2007-03-28 19:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by cloudm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋