Crush? Give up or make a move?
--I liked him back in Nov. He found out so I stayed away from him.
--We had a class together this term and he sat right by me. (assigned seats) We hung out 1 day with friends and after that he started talking to me almost everyday.
--Then one of my friends went up to him and said "do you like.." and he cut her off saying No. she tried again and he's like no.
I'm guessing it was to/about me.
Today he was looking at me.. I really want to know if we're friends, or could be more than friends. i'd like to get to know him better but I feel like I'm getting mixed signals.
What should I do? Just ignore the question my friend tried to ask and sit him down and talk about it.
I heard he's shallow and i'm not the best looking, and i'm kind of shy.
What should I do? Please help!
2007-03-20 13:48:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're both 15, young I know.
Please give me some advice on what to do though. pleasee. =]
2007-03-20 13:49:32 · update #1
Well, if you two are friends, then just get to know him a little bit better. You shouldn't be in any kinda rush b/c that will only cause you to make the situation more confusing. Also, since he's shallow, he will judge most girls he meets by looks. You don't need that. There are plenty of guys out there that you will meet, so don't get all your hopes up on this one guy.
2007-03-20 14:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by alwayzder4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even the shallowest guys can be attracted to someone who isn't gorgeous, or even someone who is ugly. It's called hormones, love, or just attraction to personality. Be funny, interesting, and make yourself look as good as possible. Wait a little while--its best if he makes the first move. If he doesn't, try something subtle. Play a game in class "would you rather kiss/date so-and-so" or something like that. It'll give you an idea of the kind of girl he does like, and maybe even let you know whether he likes you or not. Good luck!
2007-03-20 13:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by Vanessa H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 01:48:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i would like to thank you for asking for help WITHOUT sounding like a 7 year old.. sadly rare to find people like you :P
about your problem.. i know how you feel.. nice guy, sooo sooo nice.. but hes shallow.. been there =\
i would suggest staying friends with him... i know the "friend zone" isn't a place many people like to be, but in this case it may work to your advantage... if he isn't smart enough to realize you are really a great girl and get over his shallow attitude.. then he really isn't worth it.. i know getting those "he isn't worth it" responses never really helps much.. I'm sorry.. but it really is true.. the more you can show him that you don't need him the better.. i think he will realize how great you are eventually... he may even like you now but be too confused... i don't think you are ugly.. i don't know you though.. so if you really aren't his "type" but he likes you he may need to figure out whats going on in his own head
best of luck :) i hope i wasn't too confusing hehe
2007-03-20 13:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by curls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've probably heard this a million times, but i'll say it again.. guys are REALLY immature.. even if they like you, they won't tell you. especially if they're shy too.. first thing you gotta work on is your confidence. who says you're not the "best looking"? according to who's standards? if he's too shallow to stop putting on a front when he's around everyone, then you're too good for him anyway. cuz it sounds like he does have some interest there, just too afraid to show it (which would explain why he would immediately cut your friend off). and if he's too afraid to be himself, do you really want someone like that?
2007-03-20 13:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by :blueberry: 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it girl! Don't ever hang back beause you're not quite certin what answer you'll get. But maybe be subtle about it, so as you can salvage your dignity if the answer is no. But sometimes it's good closure to hear it straight out from him, leaving no doubt. It's up to you, but I'd say go for it. Best of luck!
2007-03-20 13:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is just ask him about it. I know when I was your age if someone asked me if i liked someone I would automatically say no, even if I did. If you're realy shy, you could try saying you used to have a crush on him. But the best thing you can do is be mature and direct.
2007-03-20 14:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mabus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know him anyhow- he talks to you daily so obviously he thinks youre interesting, at least. So what if he doesnt like you now? If you get to know him a little better maybe he will, or maybe youll find you dont actually like him afterall. Especially if you find he is infact shallow. Youre not getting married, youre in high school! Its perfectly acceptable to be social! Hang out with him a bit more and see how it works out!
2007-03-20 13:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by techiemaiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never give up. Maybe he is just to shy to say yes. If he has had a lot of Girlfriends then maybe he likes you but likes some one else more. I have had that happen to me before. Just wait a while and see how he reacts.
2007-03-20 13:54:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one looks arent everything, i know everyone says that but i know that first hand, the best thing to do would probably be to just ask him what he thinks, if your just friends, if your even friends, or if it could be more, hell give you an honest answer and if he is no nice about it, you dont need someone like him!
2007-03-20 13:54:24 · answer #10 · answered by jackie. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋