I have a 2 year old siberian husky and chow mix. She was a wonderful dog with me when i was pregnant and she always seemed really concerned the further along i had got. My husband warned me that she could change because my attention will be focused more on my child than on her, we both kinda went back and forth about it, however after i gave birth to my little girl i am sorta agreeing with him that she may get jealouse and do something to harm my child, i am very worried i love my dog alot but i of course love my child more and i dont want the dog to hurt my child so i was wondering if anybody has ever dealt with the same problem and what did they do ? Also i have been thinking of taking my dog to the pound to be on the safe side so i dont worry as much. Does anyone think this is a good idea or do you think that there could be any way to teach her to be a "mommy dog ?"
2007-03-20 13:39:53 · 18 answers · asked by mommyandbaby 4 in Pets ➔ Dogs
don't reject your dog, try to include him in the activities you do with your baby, never leave your baby unattended in the proximity of the dog and talk to him softly, play with him, pat him when you are watching tv with the baby, let the dog know that you won't put him aside because there's someone else in the house, when the baby is older he would love to play with the dog! i know this cuz i have a boxer and a pitbull and a 4 month old baby and all you have to do is use your time wisely, don't get rid of the dog, he didn't ask for the baby to come home!
2007-03-20 13:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by paulipauli 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That is foolish if she has given you no reason it the past and the pound in the last place safe for any dog especially a large mix breed, palacing in a pund would be scary for her, she will suffer depression and anxiety while waiting for someone to adopt and because of size and mix most likely won't get a home and then would be euthanized, which is not very fair to her just because you did not bother to take the time to prepare her.
Right now your baby while be safely in a crib or playpan for several months yet, so you have time to prepare your dog, so it is not too late
I would recommend this book Child-proofing Your Dog: A Complete Guide to Preparing Your Dog for the Children in Your Life
by Sarah Wilson and Brian Kilcommons the link below gives a bit of info about the book "http://www.twbookmark.com/books/97/0446670162/index.html
It is available thru chapters , amazon and other book stores
This book is recommended by greyhound rescue groups who are placing retired racing greyhounds into homes with children because the dogs have no past experience with children or pet experience for that matter, your dog is much more prepared that any greyhound coming off a track.
2007-03-20 14:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by OntarioGreys 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thought about my dog (a Amstaff Pitbull Terrier), but the worries escaped me, I read up on the breed, watched my dogs temperament around me and other children and other people and their dogs. I have made my dicision and that is, she will be a great dog around my baby. And I say in your case your dog should be fine, just always supervise as you would any other dog or human being. Don't let all the rubbish about certain breeds fill your head, because in the end it's all about how you and your child connect with the dog, not what other people think.
2007-03-20 13:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not get rid of your dog, based on fear. You have to introduce the baby to your dog, and make sure the times they are around each other, is supervised.
If you're really concerned, you can muzzle your dog the first few introductions.
If things aren't working in your favor, YOU rehome the dog. Do not send your dog to the pound, if you truly love this animal. Find a no-kill rescue, if need be. Don't release your animal to a place that would euthanize him/her due to being a Chow mix (yes, they'd do that).
2007-03-20 13:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the dog would be better off with a different owner. No worries about the kid, the dog will be fine with it. Why not brush up on obedience? Try to find a good home before you dump the dog. An adult dog of those breeds has little chance of making it out of the shelter to a new home, there is no demand.
2007-03-20 13:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by bzzflygirl 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
being a mother 2 myself and having 2 rottie border collies ???mixes. while one took straight to baby the other was a bit more stand offish... it takes times and ur leadership over the dog...jeousyis not really whats happening...ur dog is unsure of its place in this 'new pack'...
please try to work with the dog...and never leave baby in dog reach... and remember it can take 1-4 mos depending on the dog to adjust to new pack members be it human or animal.
I would seek a trainer and whats better then a trainer is a behaviorist....
walk dog as much as u can and walk dog with stroller its winter here but tommorrow is the first day for spring so nice weather for walks is coming.
you did not say if the dog has shown any signs of trouble...?
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2007-03-20 15:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by dragonwolf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dogs and children are made for each others. I've never hear of a case where dog would harm a family member. It just doesn't happen. In my family when I was growing up we had lots of dogs and children..even infants. The dogs just know that the little infant and children are part of the family. I don't see any reason for you to fear.
2007-03-20 19:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may take some time for her to get used to the idea of a baby in the house, but if you try to still give her attention and not neglect her, I think all will be ok... Whatever you do, do not take her to the pound because that's very unfair, she didn't do anything to deserve to go there....
2007-03-20 13:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say how about you give her away to one of your close realatives and when your child is a little older and can handle an animal around her then you can ask back for the dog and bring the dog back to his/her home safe and sound!
~Hoped this helped!
2007-03-20 13:48:23 · answer #9 · answered by *~*Purr-fectNYCGrl*~* 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well u could try to keep your dog away from your infant or if its getting along try to pay equal attention to your dog and infant or take turns with your husband taking care of your dog
good luck , maybe ask the vet
2007-03-20 13:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by becky33 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋