My boyfriend is shy??

Question

Okay, me and my bf have bn goin out 4 1 week today. we can only c eachother n btw classes and to and from track. i have a feeln that im avoidn him and im puttn him down but i d/k. we havent held hands yet b/c he is SO shy around me........but the fny thing is i hav always known him 2 b loud and open-minded.... i knew him snce 1st grade and me and him had a thing 4 eachothr n 4th grade....... im not allowed to date and im 13.......... how can i open him up and when shood i make the first move beyond holding hands (b/c i plan to do that tomorrow)? please help me QUICK!

Answer 1

I'm going though the same thing to!!! (look at my questions the answers might help to)
I know the last thing you want to here right now is to wait and he will osen up s oI'm not gonig to tell you that.
What you should do is maybe call him just to talk. I have this thing were the boy should call the girl first but in your case he proboly wont call you first. Also you shouldnt get so worried yet 13 year old boys are so immature trust me I'm 13 so he proboly is treating you the same way as before this is what he proboly is thinking "I have a girlfriend now why treat her differently than before she liked me then"
If he did talk to you more before you went out dont try to be all over him ALL the time becuase most likely that will scare him off. Also guys are shy so talk abotu somthing trival like basketball you mught not want to talk about but he will fell more comfortable with you and the conversation will branch to more interesting things.

RULES ABOUT CONVERSATION
1. Dont talk about your self the whole time
2. Dont tell him how big your butt is or how ugly or fat you think you are. (he dosnt care he likes you)
3. Since he's shy let him talk about things he wants to talk about at first.
4. Dont scare him or say rude things about his friends

We both need luck beucase my bf is doing the same thing...

Thanks for the question I know I'm not alone :]

Answer 2

Gurl i had the same problem my boyfriend was all shy the first couple of weeks but i realize that we just started to go together were not suppose to be doing every thing you see other people do in there relationship because they probaly know what their expectation is for their dating scene take it slow and get to know him better before doing all that stuff because boys get bored and will dump you on the spot for going to fast in the relationship. They feel there is nothing left for them in the relationship so the y bounce.

Answer 3

there is that this philosophy in existence that men are into each and every thing you could think of, this is not real. men are probably extra insecure approximately their bodies than ladies are. opposite this occasion, think of it became you that became feeling this way while he might attempt take it step extra, how might you want him to bypass approximately it. deliver a pair extra compliments his way, If hes a small guy, point out which you have observed his arms firming up or he's calling extra buff at present, besides the fact that if this is not real it will make him sense extra manly, which in turn will make him extra open. Spend some weeks merely giving average compliments, in some cases for the period of intercourse say some self belief boosting issues. In time his "Sorry for nerdy reference" look after will decrease and he will start to locate extra of the belongings you opt to do. heavily us men are not that tough to be sure.

Answer 4

Most guys become shy when they are around the girl they like. Just talk to him about holding hands to see what he thinks about it. He may not have tried yet because he is afraid you're not ready to hold hands.

Answer 5

you mean like kiss then do it now if you mean sex wate tell you are 18 are oler