am 18 years old.
I am naturally tan like born with it.
I am 5'0 (short)
I am curvy but not fat
I have full natural lips
Brown eyes
Long black hair.
Alot of guys look at me, like onces i entered a store and there were 3 guys there and they all started looking when i entered and then one of the girls said "what happened, why did you stop?" and then she looked at me and was like ohh.. and then the guy was said to her "when you look like that, everybody looks at you..." and the girl said "yea lucky girl and started laughing. I don't know if they were talking about me or my mom who is 50 lol. But nobody ever asks me out i have never been asked out. Even though people tell me im really pretty why is this?
but i think im really ugly because when i turn my webcam on my face looks really really messed up like crooked but not in mirros its like im hidious yet people think im attractive are they all blind?
2007-03-20 13:16:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
y dont u just believe em!! cuz u noe ur pretty u just dont wantt too believe it =]
best of luck. my wishes to ya.!
2007-03-20 13:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have basically almost the same appearance as you. And I do believe im not attractive at all, but sometimes i feel like guys always looks at me and im wondering why because I dont think I look good at all. Even when I take pictures I look so ugly, only in mirrors I look better lol. I dont get asked out by a lot of guys too. However when guys look at me, they give more confidence to make be think im not ugly. But anyway, I think you're probably beautiful, along with other people, but you just dont know it yourself. Hopefully the guys who look at you gives you more confidence about how you look. Dont compare your looks with other people because everyone has a unique look. And everyone is beautiful in their own ways.
2007-03-20 20:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From your description, you sound like a replica of myself. Except I'm 24. I've never seen you but you probably have natural beauty. And, you're baseing your looks on a webcam. Webcam picture quality is very sucky. You can never get the display settings right. If you still believe you're ugly after what I just said, then it must be just MY camera. LOL
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If people say you are pretty, you are pretty. Society is based on standards and beauty. Listen to what society is telling you.
2007-03-20 20:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like a girl that has confidence. I'm guessing your probably very attractive but if your not confident about your own image, it can come across as a big turn off. Especially if people have to convince you that you're beautifull. They may try to convince you that you're pretty but if you keep telling them no, they will eventually just give up. It's all about confidence. You just need to be confident and happy with who you are.
(Web cams are usually poor quality video so don't base anything off of a web cam picture.)
2007-03-20 20:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by elapse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be gorgous if guys never ask you out! All of your freinds cant be lying to you! I have the same problem, I walk into a room and everyone stares, but no one ever talks to me. Guys are just stupid, they are so immature that they dont even want to take a chance with a pretty girl, just go chat a hot guy up! he will fall for you haha good luck!
2007-03-20 20:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Your eyes must see something different that others eyes. When the guys do start asking you out, you might have to fight them off with a stick. lol Just be patient--your time will come. Maybe the guys are afraid to ask you out--afraid they will be rejected.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 20:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't think bad of yourself because it is reflected in your attitude. If you are at least satisfied with yourself and show some confidence then people will notice.
Don't believe you are ugly then that is what people will think....so think postively and don't feel bad webcams bring out blemishes and other things on your face that most people won't even notice in real life.
2007-03-20 20:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by MoMoChan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop! Take a very deep breath, Now exhale................
If you just hate your look, then change it.
A simple make over. nothing drastic or dramatic just a few minor changes, such as new hair style, go to the mack counter or clinique for new look , smokey eyes , pouting lips
go shopping for some very sexy shoes, purchase a new scent or design one for your body chemistry only. Have fun! look forward to a new you, and the dates you will have to beat off with a bat I promise.
2007-03-20 21:02:58 · answer #8 · answered by Tennessee Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty to me:-) You just don't believe that you are when other people tell you. Call me old fashioned, but I think real beauty comes from within. I think the guys where you are, are just crazy to have not asked you out. I'm hoping they lighten up! Good luck with everything.
2007-03-20 20:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by poetry_dreamer2001 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quite often the most attractive young ladies are the loneliest. Sometimes people are intimidated by beauty. The cure for this is to develope your personality, then you will be beautiful and charming. After that you will rule the world.....
2007-03-20 20:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by ipolkadot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the reason why nobody has ever asked you out is because maybe they think you are soooo out of their league! Even though you may not be.....that's what they think. Well Iv'e never been asked out either and EVERYBODY (except ppl at skool) tells me im beautiful but I just don't believe them. Don't dout yourself. You probably ARE beautiful!
2007-03-20 20:22:32 · answer #11 · answered by Birdiebuddy_11 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋