my friends keep saying that i should just forget about this one guy, but i just really dont want to! i cant say no to my friends but i just cant bring myself to say no to this guy either
i have strong feelings for him!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-20 13:16:07 · 13 answers · asked by sweet pea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your feelings, they are the language of your soul speaking your truth!
2007-03-20 13:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by dlspeed 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why let your friends dictate who YOU go out with? Unless you are trying to turn a blind eye to faults he has, then I say go for it. Your friends are going to look out after their best interest, you should look after yours. If they can't accept that someone makes you happy, then make new friends who enjoy you when you're happy. If on the other hand there IS a problem and you are trying to "change" something about him, then just forget it. The ONLY thing you have control over to actually change is YOURSELF. Thinking you have control over anything else than your own actions, behaviors and emotions will only hurt and disillusion you in the long run.
2007-03-20 13:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Waddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to, then don't. You can't help how you feel about a person.
So let him know how you feel. Just remember that your feelings might not be HIS feelings.
Also keep in mind that we sometimes confuse attraction for feelings. Attraction is instant an based on what we see and hear from a person. Feelings take time to develop.
Whatever the case, good luck to you.
2007-03-20 13:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by fenway2k 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel. You will just need to tell your freinds that you dont want to yet. You will get over him eventually but until then just be friends. Ok
2007-03-20 13:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kinka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i really don't know what the situation is. Your friends could be tryring to protect you. But if that isnt the case i dont think other ppl should get in the way of potietal love, scratch that, ppl will always try to get in the way. the question is, will you let them?
2007-03-20 13:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by avaughn09 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first you have to look at why your friends are saying to forget him. do they have ulterior motives? maybe they want him for themselves lol. but if they have a good reason ("he beats puppies every morning after breakfast") then listen to him. basically you have to look at both sides of the story which can be hard because you're probably biased which is only natural. good luck!
2007-03-20 13:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by hirsutemustelid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what you feel... friends will always be there to give you opinions but learn to balance the 2... good luck!
2007-03-20 13:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by 100% Woman, yes indeed! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, having feelings for someone is okay! Your freinds arnt in charge of you if you like him, then like him. If they are real freinds they will suport you
2007-03-20 13:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there a reason that your friends are telling you to keep away? maybe you should consider that or are they just jealous?
2007-03-20 13:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh your young and there's gonna be other guys just what ever you do don't do anything you can't tell your parents about.
2007-03-20 13:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by WWJD 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋