My ex boyfriend and i first met at a football game and after that day we used to talk a whole bunch. But then we decided to date so we tried it and it lasted a week. He broke up with me the day that i saw him with a girl but he says that it wasn't him and he said only dated me for a bet. We stopped talking after that then we started again. We dated another time because i gave him a second chance. And it lasted for another week. It was kinda neutral when we broke up because our relationship was going down hill. We stopped talking after that happened and then talked again and then we dated again for another week but, i broke up with him because he didn't talk to me for like 3 days for no good reason. I've been trying to get him out of my head and get over him but its hard. He's even in my dreams. I don't know how to get over him and our relationships never work. Plus his friends hate me and my friends hate his. Do you have any suggestions on how to get over him?
2007-03-20 13:15:23 · 3 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to get over a guy is first, you have to list out the reason the relationship didn't work despite you two have been on and off too many times. Put that list on your mirror or somewhere convenient so you can look at it when you woke up from those pesty dreams of him (i've tried that before and i did stop feeling miserable)
Second thing is go out find something you like to do and have as much fun as you can (booze is excluded, you don't want to end up banging on his door telling him you are still hot for him). When you have things to do and a lot of fun and interesting things going on you wouldn't even have time to think of him. It might be hard at first but don't worry you can do it.
2007-03-20 13:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by dreamymoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. Listen, bury all of the things (cards, notes, gifts) you got from him and imagine the bad moments you spent with him of whenever you fought. Go out with your girls, see a movie, have fun, take care or your hair, body and everything. Write down the things you feel about him and you'll get over it. Trust me.
Good luck ;)
2007-03-20 20:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST THINK ABOUT EVERY THING THAT YOUR EX DID TO HURT YOU. DO NOT THINK GOOD THOUGHTS ABOUT HIM THEN YOU WILL REALIZE THAT YOU DO NOT NEED HIM AT ALL. THATS WHAT I DO. KEEP YOUR MIND BUSINESS SO YOU NOT HAVE TIME THINK ABOUT HIM ANY MORE THROUGH EVERY THING AWAY OF HIM LIKE PICTURES ANY THING. GET RID OF YOUR MEMORIES WITH HIM. TRY NOT THINK ABOUT HIM AT ALL IT HARD BUT I THINK CAN DO IT.IT TAKES A LONG TIME IF YOU LOVED YOU EX YOU NOT GET OVER SOME YOU LOVE RIGHT AWAY IF YOU REALLY LOVED THEM.THINK ABOUT SOME OTHER GUY DO NOT WAST YOUR TIME THINK ABOUT HIM HES PROBABLY NOT EVEN THINK ABOUT YOU AT ALL OR VERY MUCH.HES *** HOLE FOR GET HIM FOR GOOD. FIND SOME ELSE LATER ON WHEN YOU GET OVER HIM FOR GOOD.
2007-03-20 20:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Carebear22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋