For a shout of the 10 points please address
What did you do?
Did you revenge him, if so how?
Have you truely forgiven him?
Has he ever apologised or does he not accept he was wrong?
Are you still with the same guy?
For me I had slept with a older married guy from 17 until late 2005. I then had a serious family crisis and had to go and live overseas for several months whilst my father (his business contact but never aware of our relationship) tried to rob all I had worked for. Since I came back to fight for what is mine this guy was useless, first he gave me money each month and then broke off contact. I was mortified after all I gave him even though we had an open relationship.
I have always punished boyfriends who have crossed me, typicaly with spankings, but for this guy (I never spanked him as he was a perfect lover) I just feel so hurt and angry. I cannot get him out my mind yet I feel fire burning in my heart. If I tell his wife about us he will loose a lot but I am torn.
2007-03-20 13:10:34 · 5 answers · asked by Skyblue Princess 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was with my partner for 14yrs we had 3 children together, We lost one of them at 6mths old. He was a victim of cot death. We split up a year later, and I met my current partner and moved on, but he didn't. He came round to my parents house in tears so my mum would feel sorry for him and let him in. Big Mistake!!! My parents had to hold him back from punching my lights out and he then accused me of murdering our son. I was devastated. Never forget "What goes around, comes around". That was 4 yrs ago, the last time he made an effort to see his daughter was 2yrs ago. He never bought any of the kids any Christmas presents last year, and now none of his kids want anything to do with him. Sad really, but he made the rod for his own back. I don't believe in revenge, trust in fate, I did.
2007-03-20 14:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by mhruss13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound slightly disturbed but I like you!
My husband is wonderful in every way but suffers from the need to sulk and is skilled in passive aggressive language. I'm passive but stuck in my ways (read: I'm always right and my rules rule OK). We've been together for 4 years and married for 1, and we battle like two bulls to get the relationship sorted.
Sometimes I'm stunned that it might actually be my behaviour that is the problem and I am making an effort to apologise for that. It fxcks me off that I am the only one that does that.
I'm intererested in your punishment techniques, please get in touch and give me some tips! Spank spank!
2007-03-20 13:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by peanut1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you do? he cheated on me 3 different times... then called me a ****!!!
Did you revenge him, if so how? i slept with his brother!
Have you truely forgiven him? yes! and i told hbim about his brother!
Has he ever apologised or does he not accept he was wrong? yes he has and we are happier then ever!
Are you still with the same guy yes and i love him more then ever!
2007-03-20 13:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get involved with all this nonsense. I choose good bf that either treat me well, or I walk, Simple as that!
2007-03-20 13:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so much I can't even offer my cute snappy advice!!
Let's see ....hmmm.....
U r living in a fantasy world!!
2007-03-20 13:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋