i randomly met a beautiful girl, unexpectedly, there was alot of eye contact, and i had a flower with me so i gave it to her... she seemed real interested in me, and i, her... so we exchanged phone numbers, so when should i call her? I lost some wonderful girls cuz i was too "affectionate"? i guess would be the best word. So what do YOUthink? 2 days, 3, a week? or should i wait for her to call me? i really wanna know, especially from a girls point of view
2007-03-20 13:10:18 · 21 answers · asked by truthxbeyondxrecognition 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait about 2 to 3 days to keep her guessing. dont worry...she will want to see if ur interested and wont run off with someone else if she is really feelin for ya. but dont talk to her like ur best friends ease into the relationship. good luck and i hope it works out!!
2007-03-20 13:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by shirley 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oookaay, you shouldve already called her. not over a day after u exchange number or she'll lose all interest. Once a guy called me two weeks after i gave him my number and by then i completely forgot him and lost all interest. Give her a call. then call her again to show her ure still interested after the 1st convo. After the 1st 5 phone calls from you, let her do some calling. The point is to show her ure really interested. Take my advise and u'll get the girl...trust me!
2007-03-20 20:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 to 2 days.
2007-03-20 20:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by MrSnuffles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think 3-7 days is good. call her on a thursday or something so if you get to talking and she's free on the weekend you can hang. if not then it shows that you didn't call too early to make a date happen, it was just a random call. bc by thursday some ppl have an idea about what they wanna do over the weekend.
2007-03-20 20:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by parveeahmed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to assume you mean too clingy when you say too "affectionate." That's okay, the important thing is you know it and you can take care of it. You just have to give a little breathing room.
So, yes, call her right away...chat, laugh, learn about each other, ask her out on a date. Just don't pounce on her. Relax and enjoy.
2007-03-20 20:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by Marina D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were really interested in someone, I would want to hear from them right away. I don't understand how you could be "too affectionate". I say give it a day or two.
2007-03-20 20:13:29 · answer #6 · answered by Maid of Constant Sorrow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if she really likes you, she will be spazzing out waiting for you to call, I don't see anything wrong with calling her soon. I think like 2 or 3 day would be good...
2007-03-20 20:14:22 · answer #7 · answered by BlondeQTx3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a day or two. You don't want to see too anxious but you don't want to miss out on her if you waited too long. So, I would say call her by friday.
2007-03-20 20:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a day and call around 9:30 in the evening.. (cozy time)
2007-03-20 20:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by SHORTY38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her in a day or two, just casual, dont wait toooo long tho, if she is gorgous, she wont be open for long!
2007-03-20 20:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋