Okay i have a lot of friends who give it up to a guy and they broke up after thAT. okay this is what im trying to say when do you know that you are ready to have sex. Becuase im in a realtionship, and he dosent force me to do anything, if he did it would be over. But back to what i was saying it was like my friends did it for fun and to see how it would feel. Thats was really stupid i know. but i was brought up the right way, i black not stupid. Just help be because im really confused on what to do like when do you know when you are ready to give it up to give it up to the right person. I JUST REALLY NEED YOUR HELP.PLEASE AND THANK YOU.
2007-03-20 13:04:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is difficult to really know for sure if you are with the "right" person -- it is a feeling and thats even more difficult to explain ---- its like you know it deep in your heart/soul/mind -- that you dont want to be with anyone else and that person respects your beliefs and desires
saying all that i was a virgin when i got married and wondered what all the fuss was about --- now sex is just something that two people who care for each other indulge in ---- and my lady wants to wait so i will wait without pressure or expectations
2007-03-20 13:15:45 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 06:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down. Make sure you're doing it for the right reasons...figure out what those reasons are. That answer differs from person to person. Some people have no hang ups about sex and others have a bunch of conditions...after we're married, need to be in love, etc, etc.
2007-03-20 13:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by MrSnuffles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex if you're not prepared to face the consequences. Don't give in to peer pressure. If your friends do that, you don't have to do it, as well. I'm sure you're a great gal, who has a good head on her shoulders. Sex should be done if you're ready. And that means, when you're a lot older, has a stable job, has graduated from college, and are financially stable. That way, whatever happens, you have something to fall back on.
2007-03-20 13:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by roche_leonor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it depends on how old are you and will your parents approve of that. If you were raised to be like then don't matter but if my parents knew they would kill me and I know your not going to tell them about but if I were you I would not do it at all because it is stupid but right now I can say is whenever you are ready and thought about it carefully then do whatever you want but remember it might effect your life hope this helps
2007-03-20 13:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am black too!!
what you need to do is this-ask your self if you really want to do it-I mean it ther eis nothing worse then haveing bad sex-trust me-I know!! Just ask yourself this question, if there is any doubt-wait and see what happens later. If he wants it tell him you are not ready to jump a step yet. Jus ttalk to yourself and him!!
who cares about your other friends, if they truly were your friends-they would let you have it your way!!
2007-03-20 13:11:36 · answer #6 · answered by smileyfaces4u2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in love with someone you know with all your being. These friends of yours are being very stupid, they are robbing themselves of something really special. you seem intellegent to question their motives and i hope you will go with your gut and wait for the guy who asks nothing of you but your time, love and attention, basically the guy who knocks you off your feet.
2007-03-20 13:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋