i live with my ex, we have been split for over a year and to be honest the chemistry was never right between us when we were together but we have always cuudled up to one and other since we split and shared a bed from time to time but not sexually. She is now seeing someone and still wants these cuddles from me and to share her bed from time to time. Also she wants me to live with her forever and that she doesn't ever want her g/f's to live with her and never wants me to leave. I too can have partners but she doesn't want me to leave her.....what do you think?
2007-03-20 13:01:52 · 17 answers · asked by December 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're very lucky to have someone who probably thinks you're wonderful! Imagine, a lifelong companion but you still get freedom. Genius, yes?
2007-03-20 13:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Divine ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sweet but you know yourself its not right! when are seein people this could effect your realtionships with them becuase this is not normal!
i would tell her how your feeling, weird abut the cuddles and the bed sharing etc because im sure the girl shes seeing wouldnt be to happy about this!
the way i see it is she is having her cake and eating it! shes always going to have you to fall back on and if you dont tell her other wise shes always going to think this!
2007-03-20 13:07:25 · answer #2 · answered by SWANNY AND SNUGGLES! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants her cake and eat it... and then some more cake!
BIG trouble.
Your gonna get caught out. Affairs like this always are. You need to set her straight. it's gonna ruin both relationships, plus the relationship you have with her.
Very nasty for everyone.
Tell her straight to back off....in a nice way. You can still be freinds....but only friends.
2007-03-20 13:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by trickyrick32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels comfortable with you or she's just clingy. Don't give her the satisfaction of having her cake and eating it too. If she wants to cuddle so bad, let her cuddle with her mate. The line has to be drawn somewhere
2007-03-20 13:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wanting her cake and eating too. She cant have both. Sounds like she needs a sister or a mother figure for security. Its up to you, do you want to be a security blanket all your life or do you want to find true love and a relationship more fullfilling than you have now. I would look for love if i were you.
2007-03-20 13:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's unconventional that's for sure, but I've heard of this sort of arrangement working successfully before. If the pair of you are happy to let it continue, why not. You don't mention children, I think you'd have to think about the situation again if there are children involved.
2007-03-20 13:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by jet-set 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it i guess, as long as she knows that there's no more to it than cuddles and sharing a bed....if she has a new partner you should have too!....hope your new partner will be understanding though...best of luck with that one!
2007-03-21 03:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by Just passing the time! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you as a secruity blanket. If things dont work out with her partner she knows your there for her emottionally and when she needs a hug.
2007-03-20 13:06:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
why do you live with your ex?! Maybe time for you to move out and find someone who wants to give you cuddles exclusively?
2007-03-20 13:06:08 · answer #9 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you should tell her if she wnts to be with someone else, she has to hit the road.
2007-03-20 13:09:47 · answer #10 · answered by Junior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋