But when a woman has alot of sexual partners she's a "slut?" What's up with that? The man is having sex with women and they brag about it, but the woman that they have sex with is a slut!!! Why?
2007-03-20 13:00:21 · 7 answers · asked by stoutunicorn 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its just the way it is.
2007-03-27 11:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly this is something that will never get resolved. I know plenty of men that are sluts by action and many women also. Around me none of them are considered anything but sexually active.
Women who gossip ruin it for all. This is how it all starts. Such and such woman has sex with someone. Gossip queen finds out, somehow (see below), and starts talking about it. Gossip always comes across negatively, simply because its better that way, and so starts the rumors. Then Such and such woman gets labeled a slut.
Here is how it happens for a guy. Whether he talks about just among his friends or not... its always bragging or talking about how great it was. Its a positive thing among his friends because they are happy he scored. Just like girls are happy they scored also and talk about it with their friends.
Either way someone who knows lets it slip to the gossip queen. That is the root of evil on this double standard. Most people could give a flit how much sex someone other than them are having.
2007-03-27 22:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Rumin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, in spite of the strides women have made in the world, it's still a man's world, and the double-standard still exists. Perhaps in the future, boys will be taught that women are to be loved and respected, rather than used for their own physical pleasures. Hopefully then their sexual exploits will be frowned upon, rather than admired.
2007-03-27 16:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say "****" like it's a bad thing. Men are very fond of women who are strongly sexual. It's women who tend to be judgmental in this area. My guess is these women are jealous, or they have some "won't buy the cow if the milk is being passed out" problems.
2007-03-27 19:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nels N 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey,he would be considered experienced!! It is so cliche' that women r sluts if they are promiscuous,but men r considered studs!!?? Hell no!! they are both more experienced I feel!! Who cares what others think or say!!
2007-03-27 19:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by diva_in_phx420 aka ladyunicorn420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad but true...I think it should be the other way around, put those men in their places....
2007-03-20 18:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's just the way it is in life.Completely wrong and unfair.
2007-03-22 03:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋