well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it. the next day my friend overheard her and her best friends conversation and said her best friend said"so are you gunna go out wwith him" and she said i don't know. they also said she was really really happy i asked her out. the weird thing is after likea week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and looks away when i look. also today in class we were reading this romantic story outloud and she kept staring at me with her head in her hands and looked kinda like she was daydreaming.(0) like this ( =hands 0=head
i'm just really confused now. does she like me? shes also transferring to a different school in may.when i saw her today my heart started beating in a way i never felt before it was........i dunno what to do . should i try again?
2007-03-20 12:58:44 · 14 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is when friends get invovled it gets confusing. You should confront her and put it to rest. Dont have your friends do something you should do. So ask her ans see. I wish you the best of luck
2007-03-20 13:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had a similar situation... i think you should ask her why everythings gone wierid between you two... and now that you know that shes moving.. i would do it soon... or else you will never know the answer.. and you will regret it someday... The girl i had liked a couple years ago.. went to prom with her.. then one day... she just started avoding me.. and we sat across from each other in class... so she would look at me.. but then look away... and it was really awkward... turns out she was getting a little serious with another guy.. and she couldnt find a way to tell me that we couldnt be more than friends... and had to find out the hard way from her friends and other people.. so try to find out directly.. instead of finding out from other sources..
2007-03-20 13:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she likes you, but her parents might no be letting her date, or you in particular. Then again you said she is transferring in may, thats 2 months from now. She woud end up hurting you and she might not want to. However you never know unless you don't try. If you do try and she tells you no again, ask for a reason and don't accept just because... well all have reasons why we say no.
2007-03-20 13:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by bluejbird_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all that i now is that she does like you and there is nothing to wory about she doesnt hate u or anything!! and she does have feelings for u for what u told me!!!and sometimes it takes girls a while to answer but a week is prety long and sometimes the girls friends may not like u and they may be telling her that if she goes out with u then she wont be friends with her!!so that may be a problem but if u are desperate to get her before she transfers then i would have to say go ahead and give it another try!!!but at the same time think about it!!!!!
sorry if this is not the answer u were looking for but this is all that i got for u!!!!!!!
2007-03-20 13:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mavanee B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should definitely try again. She probably likes you, and was talked out of it. She might have just not understood how she felt about you. Either way, ask her out again.
It also might be because she is moving. She didn't want to become attached to you. If she is staying in and around your area, you could make it work though.
If she says no, just give up on her. She will never make up her mind.
2007-03-20 13:02:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like she likes you but her friends are telling her no maybe when she transfers if it is not to far away then she is not around her old friends anymore then maybe you two will finally have a chance to go out I say try being friends and then maybe her girl friends will see you the way she does
2007-03-20 13:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah she definitely likes you. try calling her and talking to her about it or after school. not on IM though, person is always best. she's probably shy now that she knows you like her, you guys just need to work things out with each other.
2007-03-21 09:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bruntë 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is moving, and that might be why she said no. You could just go and ask her about it, and tell her that you are not pressuring her, you just want to know why she said no!
2007-03-20 13:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kno you should try again and who knows maybe she will think twice about transferring if you guys go out... just go up to her and ask her if you can talk to her and tell her how you feel about her and then ask her out... trust me being a gurl i kno this stuff...
2007-03-20 13:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by ~system~of~a~down~luver~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwee thats so cute. okay this is what you should do. talk to her and be like hey is everything okay? and i know that its hard too but you have to be brave because once you talk to her hey she may say she made a mistake. just ask her if everything is okay and let her know that you really do care. =]
2007-03-20 13:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by blonde32392 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋