what do you do when you have a boyfriend with a bad temper? He's always takin his frustrations out on me...what should i do??
2007-03-20 12:52:27 · 15 answers · asked by da wifey of ur dreams 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him. A man who takes out his frustrations on others is stuck in that habit. Unless he learns how to deal with anger and frustration, you don't need to be with him. If he can get professional help to learn to deal with things in a healthy way, he might be worth keeping. But if he's not willing to do that, dump em. If you stay with him, there's a good chance he'll beat on you or at very least say immature, hateful things alot. Trust me, I've seen friends
2007-03-20 12:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by josh m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run!! I was married to an abusive person for 9 years! I thought he would change! but he didn't, we got divorce 10 years ago and things haven't change. Once a person has a bad temper and takes his fraustations on somebody else its time to find a guy that will appreciate you! and knows how to handle his temper. Don't try to find excuses for him! don't try to change him! because at the end your self esteem will be gone! and that is what he wants to control you! so he could feel better about himself!! Good luck!
2007-03-20 13:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by alma c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him on it, tell him you don't mind him being upset with you when it is something you have done to make him upset, but talk to him. Don't just say or think that he has a temper problem, you guys have communication issues. He is frustrated for a reason.
2007-03-21 10:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfgang92 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really asking a basically ridiculous question such as this? I can't believe it!
Such a boy with a temper-control problem is BAD NEWS!!!!
HELLO!
It will never be fixed and will most definitely get worse with time... and "YOU" will be the most logical object to take his anger and frustration out on!
GET OUT!!!... NOW!
2007-03-20 13:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by love_2b_curious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason why he should be taking out his frustration on you!!! Right now he is only taking out is frustration but then he is gonna start to push you then slap you and it would only get worse and worse. Even if he gets help people like him don't change. Trust me. Been there done that
2007-03-20 13:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jazmin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy that has lots of temper problems and i take them out on my siblings (unfortuneately), i say break up with him. and afterwords he still does the same thing and you are able to file a restraining order, do it
2007-03-20 12:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by Phil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a pretty good indication of what is to come...can you say domestic violence? You need to get away from him and he needs help before you are regretting being with him in the first place...Is being with him worth getting hurt? both physically and emotionally?
2007-03-20 12:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by Dixon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser. Women deserve to be treated with kindness.
2007-03-20 12:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I dumped mine for the same reason! He is not worth it you deserve better!
2007-03-20 12:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by *MaRiSsA* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the relationship is abusive i would get out of it....fast. if its just verbal maybe you guys should go see someone and talk about other ways to deal with stress and anger.
2007-03-20 12:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by ducky_lucky_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋