I'm very tall for my age, but i have a very large bootayy and i have thick thighs and a large bust. i'm 5'2 and a half" and i have i thin stomach and arms and calves or shins or whatever and regular arms. i am on a thin day, 124 lbs and on a real fat day, i'm 130. is that fat? because sometimes guys make fun of me and it really hurts. i think i would consider myself fat, but do you think i am? and if i am, then am i enough for this certain guy to tell me to go to fat camp? i mean i was buhlemic last year and i luckily stopped and am now at a healthy weight, my doctor says. but i still think that i'm a fat loser and i want to start throwing up again. last year i was like 5'0" and like 94-100 pounds.
2007-03-20 12:47:03 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
If you think that you need to loose some weight, make sure that you consult with your doctor first before you go on a diet to make a plan as to how much you want to loose and how you will do it. Make sure that you keep healthy eating habits and get plenty of exercise. I personally do not think that you are fat, but if you can't take the pressure, just make sure you consult with your doctor.
It is also completely natural to go through drastic weight fluctuations. So this year you happened to gain a few lbs, in the new season you may just naturally loose some lbs.
Lauren :)
2007-03-20 13:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Lauren <3 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are growing at a rate of 2 inches a year and at 5'2" are very tall for your age, then you must be very young. I'm guessing around 12? You are not fat. Not at all. In fact, I'm quite normal and your height and weigh more than you. Embrace your body now, don't learn to hate yourself. Grow up beautiful and healthy and strong (body and mind). Ignore freakish boys who will say anything to get your attention.
You are growing and your body will change a LOT in the next 5-10 years. Eat healthy, exercise (I suggest karate to kick the boys butts!) and love yourself.
2007-03-20 12:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!
I cannot believe that you think you're fat. If you really do have thick thighs and butt, that's not a lot; it's not that much even if you don't!
And no matter what you do, guys can tease you--trust me, I've seen super-skinny girls knocked down for being fat. And I know how you feel because I used to be anorexic. But trust me--you're just right, maybe even a little skinny--NOT a fat loser.
(Besides, I doubt the boys who tease you are all that good-looking themselves.)
2007-03-20 13:03:43 · answer #3 · answered by Vanessa H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not fat, guys think that females have to be a stick figure to be attractive, They see all the models and actresses, who are too skinny , and think that's normal. You know that as well as anyone. Those guys are just being butt holes Some people make fun of others when they are insecure about themselves. And your doctor is right your at a healthy weight
2007-03-20 13:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by redd headd 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No your not fat at all!! Don't listen to those guys, they're stupid. This means that you're probably gonna have a growth spurt soon. If you really want to lose weight, workout. Don't be bulemic. It doesn't even work for long. Cause when you're bulemic, you're body will soon recognize that the food is going to be thrown up so right when the food enters your body, it digests the fats really fast because they absorb quickest. So you'll just end up gaining weight.Don't start it up again. That's just plain dumb.
2007-03-20 12:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by lydia033 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart, you are not fat at all. and don't you let some silly, immature boys make you feel bad about yourself. they're honestly just being stupid, and don't realize the damage their cruel words can do.
I totally understand where you're coming from. I am a recovering anorexic. and you have to work every day to keep from falling back into those old ways that caused your eating disorder. but you just stay strong and do what you know you have to do to keep yourself healthy, happy, and alive.
you're already a survivor! you are a recovering bulimic! you're a fighter sweetie! you fought this disease, and you won! and someday, you may help someone else survive an eating disorder. but in order to do that, you have to keep yourself healthy by eating, and taking care of yourself. and sometimes you just have to tell the stupid people that don't care and don't understand what you've been through, that you just don't care what they think, and they can keep their opinions to themselves.
I'm very proud of you, and you're a great role model for other girls and women who are battling an eating disorder.
so you be proud of yourself girl! YOU are a WINNER!
Best Wishes, and stay strong, I will keep you in my prayers.
2007-03-20 13:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by atiana 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stacey,
I'm 5'4" and 170 pounds. I have been well over 200 pounds. I am on my way to going down to 140 and feel good about it. You are not heavy at all. I don't know why guys would ever be cruel, because you aren't overweight, they were to me, but you certainly are not. I would definitely seek help from family. Talk to people you can trust. I don't know you and I don't know what you look like, but I can tell you that you are beautiful. Please don't think negative things about yourself!
Speak out, talk about how you feel to a friend, parent, teacher, etc. Get help. I wish you the best!
2007-03-20 12:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a guy ever had the nerve to tell you to go to fat camp you should have kicked him where it hurts. Don't ever let a boy get you down, they arent worth it. And you arent fat, so don't worry sweetheart. Just eat healthy and try excerisizing to stay fit&healthy if you think you absolutely have to, but don't overdue it. Don't worry about what anyone else thinks about you because then you'll just drive yourself crazy <3
2007-03-20 13:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by Courtney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're average/at a healthy weight. If you're happy with the way you look then nobody else's opinion should matter. Someday you'll meet a guy who loves you for who you are and can accept the way you look.
2007-03-20 13:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by somedaywillcome 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm also tall for my age, and i'm almost 5 4", although i only weigh about 107 pounds. depending on your family's 'bulid', shall we say, YOUR body type, and the healthy weight for your height, age, and activity level will determine if you are at a healthy weight.
the person to talk to, though, isn't an online community, it's your doctor.
2007-03-20 12:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋