I am only 15 and he is 16. I have liked him for almost 2 years, and he finally asked me out in January. I am not sure I want to have sex with him yet, but I know I will soon. I am already thinking about it. I just wanted to know if this was normal. We have already gone 2nd, but his mom if a freak and thinks anything more than a kiss on the cheek will immediately lead to sex, so yeah, we got in trouble. Anyways, just wanted to know. Thanks a bunch.
P.S. We have already talked about it, and he said he would if I wanted to, so it's not like he is pressuring me. When we talked about it, we discussed everything bad that could happen, like pregnancy and stuff.
2007-03-20 12:46:26 · 16 answers · asked by Lior 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OKAY, I KNOW THAT LOVE NEEDS 2B XPRESSED PHYSICALLY BUT, TRUST ME HE WON'T B YOUR FIRST LOVE. I KNOW NOW WHY YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO WAIT. THINK OF YOUR PHYSICAL LOVE BEING A MILLION DOLLARS WOULD YOU GIVE IT AWAY?? HECK NO!! IT'S WORTH SOMEONE INVESTING IN YOU FOR THE LONG TERM THAN A SHORT THANG. 15 GIRL PLZ YOU GOT TIME AND SO DOES HE. TREASURE YORSELF FIRST!! EVERYBODY ELSE CAN WAIT!!
2007-03-20 12:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by michelle k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's absolutely not wrong to want to have sex. Sex is wonderful! It's natural. I just do not think that you are ready to have sex. The thing is that once you do it once...it's a lot easier to do it again and again and with different people. A girl at the age of 15 is not ready for the baggage that comes along with sex. When we (girls) are fifteen we are still learning so much about our sexuality. Guys are jerks. Especially young ones. They don't care what they do, say, or feel, once they have you...it doesn't matter any more. I say wait until you are at least 17. If you do decide to go against my advise...be sure to use a condom. There are too many STDs and you definitely don't want to get pregnant!
2007-03-20 20:04:32 · answer #2 · answered by kv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never wrong to have a desire to be sexually involved with your boyfriend. But at your age you should think deeper about the consequences that could come from sex. Yes it's something that you will enjoy and yes it will probably bring a lot of spark to your relationship with him, but just think about it and talk to some people who really care about you for their opinion. If you decide to have sex make sure that you use a much protection as possible. I hope you make the right decision.
2007-03-20 19:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by courtney n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think its a bad idea to have sex before your married and since your both so young and if yall really care about each other yall should wait until you are grown or at least married. and i don't mean to disrespect your man in any way but um, if he really cares about you then he shouldn't do anything like that yet. Because if something do happen you would have to drop out of school and take care of your babe, and by doing that you are closing so many open doors for yourself.
2007-03-20 20:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Alexia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you really need to think about what you're contemplating doing. Don't go into it half hearted and unprepared. You should seek help about contraception ( yes, you can fall pregnant from your first time - I DID ) and have condoms on hand. Assuming this is both your first times, are you prepared to give yourself to this boy, remember your first time only happens once, and the memory of it lasts a lifetime. After that - it's up to you . Good luck
2007-03-20 20:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear_45 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh.... Girl just in case you do get pregnant, just think of all the consequences, and of course follow your heart. Law says you must be 17 to legally have sex so you do the math!
2007-03-20 19:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no lol i dont think it is wrong i am a lil younger than u and i cant stop thinking about doin it with my bf lol but we are way to young lol so i gotta wait i should prolly have my first kiss before i do that
2007-03-20 19:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never wrong to WANT sex. Unless it's with a little kid, that is.
In this case I say if you want it, go for it. Just use protection.
2007-03-20 19:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and he are both YOUNG... Enjoy your teen years first!! Don't try to rush into adulthood!!
Don't rush into decisions that you cannot reverse - once done, they can't be undone. WAIT WAIT. WAIT.
2007-03-20 20:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 is awful young. Will you use protection?
Maybe you should wait awhile longer.
2007-03-20 19:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by diannegoodwin@sbcglobal.net 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋