my girl friend of 3.5 years broke up with me 3 months ago.she started to see someone else right away.now we are talking and would like to get back together.but she don't know how to end the relationship she in now..she said she doesn't want to hurt his feelings.and waiting for the right time...(when he screws up again).....how can she get out of that relationship before more time passes and his feelings will be hurt.she say im in her heart for marriage.
we do talk ,i do see her once a week.everything looks promising .i told her to tell him you still have feelings for me..i have asked her to end it as soon as possible,before to much time goes by and he wont be so hurt...she says its too late for that
2007-03-20 12:44:58 · 25 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please ask yourself one question. Who is she the most afraid of hurting? I'm sorry, this sounds to me like someone wanting to have their cake & eat it too. I do NOT believe she is being honest, EVEN IF SHE THINKS SHE IS.
2007-03-20 15:30:41 · answer #1 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very wary before I jumped back in to a relation ship with her again be friend for a while first so you know for sure that you are not just a rebound guy if you were in her heart marriage then why did she break up with you in the first place be carefull before you get hurt again it sounds to me like she is more concearned about his feelings than yours
2007-03-20 19:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should face it. If she's having a current relationship with another guy after she broke-up with you, what's is your guarantee that she'll not do it again. Maybe your GF wanted some space to know herself better. and that's a good decision rather than leaving you when you and her is already married. If you really love her, yopu should set her free, and just watch closely to protect her. If she really loves you, she will find ways too to win you back.
2007-03-20 19:57:09 · answer #3 · answered by dondatu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She broke up with you to get into the relationship she is in now! She doesn't love you anymore...she may care for you now, but she definitely not in love. If she really wanted you, no man would be able to keep her away. You should start looking for a new lady, she doesn't appreciate you and your heart. Let ole boy have her trifling butt!
2007-03-20 19:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by keisha_ke11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has no problem hurting you? We can speculate why she is doing this but what does it matter? More importantly, why are allowing her to control your life to the extent that you are permitting her too?
This woman is totally playihg you and you need to look inside you and decide why you dont think you are worthy of being treated better.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 19:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by CHELLE BELLE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she broke up with u before then 9 times out of 10 she will do it again
2007-03-20 19:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by horsemen 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is just under lots of pressure! she is draggin you both along til she finds "the better one" then she will know and so will you. you need to tell her look...i saw you again and we still like eachother than we need to be with eachother! if she really likes you she'd lose his *** and not care! even if they dated three years is good for you im in a three year now and that sounds like b.s.
2007-03-20 19:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Cool Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foolish people do foolish things.
She is still seeing him more than you. She was seeing him before she broke-up with you. She didn't have a problem hurting your feelings to get together with him. She cheated on you, she is cheating on him, she will cheat on you again.
What part are you having a problem with?
2007-03-20 19:51:28 · answer #8 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She obviously liked the other guy... but don't let that bring you down. She still probably favors you over her current bf, so keep trying. And if it's not meant to be, then it's not meant to be.
2007-03-20 19:49:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i dont know....if she said you're in her heart for marraige, then why did you guys break up? if it was because of an arguement, then if you were made for each other, you guys would have been able to resolve it. if she broke up with you to be with another guy...then she probably doesnt truly love you. so to answer your initial question, no shes probably not being honest.
2007-03-20 19:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by aznboardergirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋