i need help. i need to get over him, he's tearing up my heart!!! please help me, how do i?we've been together and broken up becuase he thinks i've lied about my past and i haven't. but he won't listen to me. it rips me apart when i see him talking to his former girlfriend (the one before me) i get so insanly jealous and he's not even my boyfriend anymore. we were together for about seven months. is there anything i can do? and my mom has told me to not have anything else to do with him. we're both seventeen
2007-03-20 12:42:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm still in love with him
2007-03-20 12:43:02 · update #1
This is a tough situation because your emotions are so strong.
Since (a) your mother advises you to stay away from him and (b) he does not seem to want to be your boyfriend, the best thing to do is make different plans for yourself.
Sometimes writing helps. You can write him a goodbye letter -- don't send it, but write down all your feelings and the things you'd like to say. You could also make some plans for yourself, positive things that will help distract you and get you involved in things that will improve your life, like sports or art or music. Also, as others have mentioned, counseling is a good idea. Good luck.
2007-03-20 12:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by waia2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I have been where you are. My boyfriend and I broke up six weeks ago after a little more than seven months together. The only thing I can say that has helped is time. Keep busy for right now with school and your friends, and as time goes by it will get easier. If he cares about you and wants to be with you, he'll realize that you weren't lying to him and come back. And if he doesn't you are better off. It may not feel that way now, but someone else will come along. Just hang in there and I promise it will get better :)
2007-03-20 12:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Cheez-its_are_Square 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he accuses you of something that you didn't do, he obviously does not trust you, or has issues with being insecure, not capable of love, just sexual desire.
He has made it clear that he does not care about you.
I felt the exact same way about my ex-girlfriend.
I called her during SuperBowl Halftime to apologize for being so unworthy, and all she did was hang up the phone. It was her choice to leave and I'm cool with that because I respect her.
That was the end. She is not the center of my universe. And I will move on because I am good enough, and I don't need a girl to remind me of that. I am me, and that is the best I can do.
You need to move on. Your ex-boyfriend is a million miles away right now, he's not coming any closer. Just let go.
2007-03-20 12:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by Whitman Lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself, are you really over him? Many people think because they have broken up that they are over eachother but sometimes the realtionship is the only thing that dies. Once you are honest with yourself, the rest should easily come, or you will see the real reason your jealous? Are you jealous because he's talking to his ex-ex or are you mad at yourself for letting him go?
2007-03-20 12:51:30 · answer #4 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seems he's worried about your past,
he doesn't have a problem with him seeing his past?
Wonder why is that?
Do yourself a favor....
drop the loser who doesn't love you
he's not worth it
2007-03-20 12:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a jerk. You can do better.
2007-03-20 12:47:07 · answer #6 · answered by Peter N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:(
2007-03-20 12:48:44 · answer #7 · answered by i tell it how it is! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋