Meaning, by experience, they want to bone you or think you belong to them after the first time they take you out or buy you something.
2007-03-20 12:42:07 · 15 answers · asked by mahoganay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Elaborting on subject!! I dont alwayts have this issue when dating, I just wanted to know why is it that the malle expectations for some men is sex or commitment, speaking on just gfettting to know someone?
2007-03-20 13:27:37 · update #1
Its the way its always been unfortunately..thats why i pay my own way.
2007-03-27 00:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had that happen to me, I mean a date is a time to get to know someone, specifically are you an adult or a teenager.
As a single adult women, I have never felt that I owed anyone more than a hug or a kiss on the cheek and a thank you after a date, if I like them thats different they may get a real good night kiss, but nothing more on the first date.
A gentleman knows this and will treat a lady with respect, its all in the type of guy you are dating.
2007-03-20 19:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by rottie110 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let them talk ya into anything. Guys will never change. Altho not all guys are like that and the ones that are- aren't worth a second date. You have more value as a person than them thinking you're only worth a dinner or a trinket and that they deserve to bone you in return. Get rid of them...Bow-wow
2007-03-20 19:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by willie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably because these guy's think with the head in there pants. But women tend to bring some things on themselves by the way they dress or act. Also there are some who make poor choices in men they pick the guy driving the Corvette instead of the Mercedes.......
2007-03-20 19:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A guy often put up a lot of money for a date. That costs a lot. So most guys feel they should get something for all the money spent on you.
2007-03-20 19:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because too many girls are easy. The sluts create expectations in guys that it's normal for girls to give it up for a date or three.
2007-03-20 19:46:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your stereo typing. Your just picking wroung guys. Next time when you go out with someone. Think.
2007-03-20 19:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing at all is owed.
It's not a binding contract or something of the sort.
That's why I spend very little. Need to know they want me, not my money.
2007-03-20 19:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
umm well i guess your pickin the wrong guys, no offense
i nevr expect anythin, and i dnt think ne one should
i guess it one of those things like how a guy always pays for the bill and stuff like tht
2007-03-20 19:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's another reason I advocate splitting at all times. He won't feel entitled to anything, since he only paid for himself.
2007-03-20 20:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋