People are calling ME the easy whore. How is that & I've been 100% faithful throughout our WHOLE, entire relationship. I had no idea he was cheating on me until 2 days ago I found out. Society ALWAYS has to blame the victim. Why? I dumped the dude. & then, when I dumped him, people told me I was cold-blooded wrong for it. People are SO contradictory!
2007-03-20 12:38:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People r nasty..he was probably bitching about you and lying to make himself feel better.
2007-03-27 00:23:38 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feud would say that other peoples actions are a reflection of their personal veiw of themselves.
People say the worst thing, they can also the sweetest. Unfortionatly you have had the mean people talking to you.
If its your friends calling such things, get real friends. Any person with half a brain would give you a high five for dumping a loser like that.
People generally tend to blame the victim assuming that the victem was the cause of that persons behaviour.
If you can forget it, but words liek that are hard to forget.
If they say those things again to your face be a pitbull. A pitbull on the attack. Ask them what he and his so called third leg had to do with you being easy? If you were easy wouldn't he be "with" you all the time? then throw in a few jabs and make fun of them back. If they call you an easy whore say soemthing like "hunny a whore is a 5 dollar crackhead like yourself, I'm first class."
Most importantly let it roll off your shoulders don't take it seriously, your better than that.
2007-03-28 12:12:03 · answer #2 · answered by grandstander_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think people call you a slut for no good reason. Maybe when you were with this boyfriend, you really seemed to be crazy about his body or something - and then you dumped him so quickly. It was your behavior, not the dumping, that gave you the reputation. As for being called cold-blooded for doing it, just say, 'He was cheating on me and I can't deal with that.' and don't say anything else about it. Anybody would understand that situation and so that should shut them up.
2007-03-28 11:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the truth and that is what is important.
Often when people end a relationship feelings get in the way and a lot of things can be said that are not true.
Chances are he is just trying to make himself look and feel better for the wrong that he did.
You will be fine and will be much better off without him.
Your real friends know you and it really is not important what people say or think.
Live with the truth and let the lies be.
2007-03-28 12:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by makeda m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this sounds like it is not making sense to you and it shouldn't because it is nonsense. You didn't ask to get cheated on. You did the right thing in dumping that fool. Those who say you are cold-blooded for doing so are fools as well. Don't listen too fools or you will become one too!
2007-03-27 20:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your bf is the cheater not you so i dont get why people are telling you this, he is the player, and you seem to be a good person so ignore the people and afte all you know yourself more than anyone else. If i were you i would dump him for cheating on me.
Good Luck
2007-03-28 01:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to what other people are saying your not a whore you were right to dump him he's not worth it if he's going to cheat on you. so just move and he's so not worth it i bet you'll find a better guy that wont cheat on you like this one.
2007-03-27 12:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea that's BS! Your definely not the one to call a Sl*t. He is and everyone is right he is probaly saying stuff about you to make his own *** look better...what a jerk. Good job for bootin his tail to the curb!
2007-03-28 06:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Hootinannie!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
society is a joke! if a guy cheats on you...HES the slut, maybe he felt bad about it, and is trying to make you look like the bad one to make himself feel better, guys are like that
2007-03-28 05:21:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously the people that r calling u a sl*t aren't anyone to care about or be worried about dont listen to them cuz your not one and they're all just bull sh**tin you...........
2007-03-28 10:15:24 · answer #10 · answered by Amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋