He doesn't like me hanging out with my friends, and he wants me to hang out with him more than my friends. And usually, my friends aren't considered the "cool" type of people. I hang out with his friends when he wants to, but when my friends call me over, he takes me in a different direction. :[
2007-03-20 12:38:12 · 16 answers · asked by ASIA :] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im an insider about this...
He is your boyfriend and you both care for each other. This situation is all because of protection. Its your boyfriend's NATURAL MAN instincts to want to protect you. Your problably very much in love and he is OVER protective of you.
My recommendation:
Just tell him that you want YOUR OWN TIME to go hang out with your friends. Then, if he rejects you going to see your friends. Tell him...I love you, but i want you to.....respect...my time...im going to see my friends.
Now this is where he either makes up his mind to 1. respect your time or 2. Become a Needy/Insecure Person
If he becomes needy....you may be very much in love, but he has alot to learn about relationships and how to have a good relationship. Since you are young...these means that after time he will become MORE AND MORE annoying until you break up. IF he chooses to not respect your time, as a female, its your job to break up with him. If you allow him to be needy by not breaking up with him and allow him to disrepect your time, you will both end up with broken hearts and will have wasted alot of time..when you could be out meeting new people..having fun. Good Luck
2007-03-20 12:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend does not think you have the coolest friends in the world, well something's up with him and I think you two need a serious discussion about what he has against them. If he says no to this, then call a friend and suggest that the three of you meet up. Tell your bf that your friends are very important to you and you really want everyone to get along. Carefully ask him what does he mean by not having cool friends and why his friends are cooler than yours. If he still would not let up, then I think you know where you stand. Good luck I hope it works out!
2007-03-20 19:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a guy that tends to the INSENSITIVE side! One of life's real important questions is "Who do you think you're better than"? The world will never be a very decent place until we treat everyone as equals! These are the things you should be noticing during the dating period, not after you're asked to make an either or decision. WAY TO WATCH!! God Bless!
2007-03-20 19:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Dust in the wind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what matters is what you think because they are after all your friends . and guys come and go but good friends are hard to find take a step back and look atthe situation is he trying to be controlling or is he trying to alienate you from the people who care about you so he can take over if he liked you before and you hadthe same friends why is he trying to change you now ? talk to him and see if he can get to know your friends and maybe he will see beyond the cool factor and see what you see in your friends hope this helps
2007-03-20 19:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you like your friends but he dosent like yours,well the only thing left to do is just keep hanging out with your friends because nobody could tell you what to do if you dont want to do it.If your boyfriend dosent like your friends whats the whole piont it dosent mean you dont have to like them eather.Boyfriends dont have to tell you that you have the best friends in the world or not you just have your friends and he has his.He may be your boyfriend but you should not let him get to you just because he dosent think your friends are the best.Just find some time for your friends and find (a little more)time with your boyfriend.
2007-03-20 19:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by AQUA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people say that their gf or bf are more imporant. I don't see that as making much sense unless you're just in it for sex.
For me, if my gf doesn't think my friends are worth hanging out with I tell them that's the way it is. They can take it or leave it.
A relationship I think will be better if they can be a gf/bf and still hang out with your friends. You have to reciporicate though and hang out with theirs to be fair though.
2007-03-20 19:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends are not cool that why he doesn`t want you to hang out with them. He likes you so very much and he doesn`t want to loose you. If you like him as much as he likes you keep him. No matter what?
2007-03-20 19:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by chuchuchu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him how you feel cause a relationship should be equal. Unless your boyfriend had good reason to keep you away from your friends you know like something negative
2007-03-20 19:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by str8 4ward 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell him to accept me going out and having fun with my friends or piss off!
2007-03-20 19:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by Girl Goes Back To The Future 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if you hav to hang out with his friends he has to hang out with your friends or some days hang out with him alone and other days hang out with ur othwer friends without him
2007-03-20 19:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋