I love my boyfriend so much! But in our relationship if sometimes feels like aIm the boy and hes the girl like every time we kiss I always have to make the first move I always have to invite him to the movies and I always have to call him! he acts like he loves me but I feel like Im the man in the relationship! How do I tell him without making hiim break up with me?
2007-03-20 12:31:19 · 4 answers · asked by Desperate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE MIGHT FEEL UCOMFORTABLE IN TAKING THE LEAD, OR HE MAY SEE YOU AS THE AGGRESSOR. SO ASK HIM IF HE WILL INITIATE EVERY ONCE IN A WHILE, OR HE MAY LOVE YOU BEING IN CHARGE!! TAKE THAT ROLE AND RUN WITH IT! SUPRISE HIM WITH SOMETHING HE LIKES TO DO AND BE INTERESTED IN IT. DON'T CALL HIM ALL THE TIME, LEAVE IT ALONE..HE'LL REMEMBER YOU NUMBER.
2007-03-20 12:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by michelle k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is what he is, if that isn't good enough for you...move on. This is why it is called "dating" instead of "pre-marriage". So what if he breaks up with you, there are plenty of good guys out there that will be nice to you. Fact is you want a guy to treat you this way or you would have already left him.
Some girls want to be treated like a doormat, by your actions you seem to be one of them.
2007-03-20 19:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, just do the same and when he asks you why you do it. You have an easy answer in your hands but don't answer mad, be your self.
2007-03-20 19:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by Rigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well next time you have an idea..you guys do that and just be like "ok next time its your turn"...make it like a fun thing..take turns planing dates and such......good luck
2007-03-20 19:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋