theres a boy........and he is like the love of my freekin life. and doesnt EVEN know how much i care for him. but he cares for a girl that doesnt even treat him right. she plays him.
and i wouldnt do that.
and this girl is tough. she'd beat my tush if she found out i liked this dude...wat do i do?!?!?!?! i CARE for this boy
2007-03-20 12:25:29 · 17 answers · asked by sarita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you can either sit on the sideline, or you can talk to him about it. At least plant the seed in his mind that you like him. Many guys will stick with terrible girls because they feel thats the best they can get.
2007-03-20 12:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by MayerDave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a son that have a girl that loves him the same way you love this guy it hard to love somebody that loves some else if you and him is friends be there when she hurts him if you can hold he come around are don't pay attention to him do let him know that you love
2007-03-20 12:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried talking to him..If he doesn't care.,..and if hes willing to be with someone else...than he doesn't care enough for you to waiste your time on him...By holding on to him you are only hurting yourself...and he seems like he doesn't care about you the way you care about him..so I'd reccomend realizing that you're better than that and moving on...I know its hard but you can do it......good luck..stay strong
2007-03-20 12:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love some one, just love him sincerely.dont expect his love in return.because if you really love him,then you'll be happy for him for whatever reason that makes him happy.if you confess your feelings to him and he rejects you,would you love him anymore?if you do, then only you can say that he's the love of your life.remember you cannot force him to like you.and you cannot force him not to love that tough girl.because love occurs naturally,without forcing or what.when it comes, you cannot deny it..pray for his happiness and support him if you care for him.but dont interfere with his life because you dont have the right to do so.hope you'll understand
2007-03-20 12:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by shizuka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
if you really love this boy your love for him must have all of these traits
4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8Love never fails.
2007-03-20 12:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know what you're talking about. one of my guy friends, he's like my brother, is completely in love with this one girl who is always messing with his emotions and already has a bf, but everytime we try to make him see the light, he always goes back to her. all i'm saying as long as he loves that girl, it's gonna take a long time for him to open his eyes and see what he's missing.
2007-03-20 12:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds bad but let him go. He will see soon enough what a s**t she is. Then when he does, at least he knows that he has you to lean on for support! Or maybe even more!
2007-03-20 12:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by Amy F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm tough!!!
signal him, don't just go up to him, but do little "girly flirty" things. don't ever let his girl get a hint or her girlfriends, that will mean trouble, coz she's tough right!!!!
eye him, just do silent stuff that will give him a hint/ signal that maybe you like him. maybe that he'll get interested and switch( who knows) maybe you could start by being friends with his friends( be smart girl and go for it!!!!)
2007-03-20 12:37:07 · answer #8 · answered by safla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, that is not taken. there is nothing that you can do to help him, you could probably tell him, but I doubt that he would listen. He will find out eventually how she is. so in the meantime just move on .
2007-03-20 12:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let things play out. if she is playing with him, he will eventualy figure it out. be there for him when he does. it will hurt. because, chances are, he already knows how you feel. so, he has gotta be ignoring that because of his fealings for this other girl. if he cres that much about her, he is going to be in pain and you being there for him will inspire feelings.
2007-03-20 12:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋