And if so why?? Is it knowing they're disease free??...or do they like the tightness of them "down there"...to honest maybe.lol.....but Im just curious...Or is the experience thing more of a turn on??
2007-03-20 12:21:49 · 20 answers · asked by ArmyGirlfriend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally I prefer it, yes.
Here's why.
1. I know for a fact that she is not a slut.
2. It will be an adventure for the both of us.
3. Almost guarantees freedom from disease.
4. There will be no jerk guys to talk about her with negative sexual connotations.
5. It shows strength of character.
6. It will allow her to be a excellent role model for children.
7. It will provide freedom from haunting of past lovers.
8. It will allow a unique bond that can't be described.
9. She becomes more rare and unique with the choice to stand alone. Think "rose in a wheat field".
10. It will allow her to share a special gift that cannot be bought or sold, only shared.
The whole experience thing is overrated. check out my question "much sex for practice" to learn more...
2007-03-20 14:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by steak n' eggs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think sexual experience comes into play that much. To be honest it's more just a representation of people's personalities.
Guys take the idea of a girl being a virgin to be akin to someone shy and reserved and may be interested in going for a challenge.
On the other hand, a guy might be turned on thinking some girl with a lot of "experience" is a sure thing to get them in bed.
So it doesn't matter so much as other factors, both ways you'll find plenty of guys and have to do the usual, weeding out the jerks and nice guys.
2007-03-20 19:28:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's tight either way.
Both have their good points. A virgin is good for her innocence... if she has any, that is. Many guys like that.
An experienced woman is good for a couple reasons. They are better at it. (Assuming they actually try and not just lay there)
And they're good for long term relationships since she wont have as much of an urge to go out and see what's out there. She already knows she's got the best right here. A virgin doesn't know the bad, so she can't appreciate the good as much.
Overall I'd choose experience.
2007-03-20 19:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a women with a little experience...the main reason is you can get certain problems with virgins. The main one would be to marry a virgin only to find out she's not into sex or overtime she realizes she's only been with one man and will wonder what it would be like to be with someone else. The other thing she might discover she doesn't like the things you like for instance...oral or whatever. A women with to much experience seem to have head trips about some jerk boyfriend or like someone else wrote the old boyfriend who just won't go away. So either way it's a catch 22
2007-03-20 19:42:33 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a virgin myself (@21yrs). Guys really don't care. If he loves you than he will not care because of his feelings for you. Everyone has a first time and he knows that. If the guy is a jerk and doesn't care, he would than make the comment that he doesn't like virgins (or vice versa). Based on your question, I assume that you are a virgin. Don't worry about when you have sex because it is the ultimate connection you can achieve with your significant other. Make sure the guy respects you and loves you for all of who you are, weather you are experienced or not.
2007-03-20 19:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by Phil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your at a party and your looking for a hook up hearing a girl has experience and is dynamite in bed can put ideas in a guys head but the girl with less experience, thats the girl we take home to meet the parents. yes the disease free thing is a major plus but the main reason is that theres less drama, we know theres less of a chance of a jealous ex bf coming back to stalk us, we can leave knowing youll always remember us, and during sex we know your not closing your eyes thinking of anyone else. we know your not comparing us to anyone.
2007-03-20 19:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by dandaman3523 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they like girls period and both ...and keep your clothes on and all will be fine and you'll never have to ask these questions and never have all the problems you see in the TV shows...just have fun nd keep it light ans simple and all guys only want one thang ya know and its not your shoes....also, everyone is different sizes "down there"; boys and girls, just like everyone has different size arms legs, feet and hands and fingerprints and everything
you're learning , maybe read some books? talk to mom and /or dad so they will learn to tust you bc that will soon be all you want from them beside a place to sleep and food! lol
2007-03-20 19:30:22 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that guys like girls who are virgins. 1) so they can experience new things together and 2) it's like a new car. who wants the used one if you can have a brand new one?
2007-03-20 19:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by Morgan M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys that want virgins either have small ***** or just are not man enough to handle a real woman
see! just like chad g said above. ha! I'm right.
2007-03-20 19:28:16 · answer #9 · answered by Lick_it_hard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to a guy, it doesn't matter much either way. if you are a virgin, stay that way until you meet the right guy. don't go out looking for "experience".
2007-03-20 19:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋