Ok so im going out with a guy right. well i REALLY LIKe him and he like me to cause duh we are going out. but when ever im around him i like never say anything. i get all red and i have no clue what to talk about. we used to be like best friends before we went out. HELP PLEASE
2007-03-20 12:18:39 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask what you did today and if he tells you something elaborate on it, say what you did, comment on his statements.
2007-03-20 12:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by pmc21392 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about what you guys used to talk about. You know, like the days before you guys starting going out! Hope this helped
2007-03-20 12:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by .Forever Young. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my. I have had many of these situations with friends, so I will try and help. First, I know it may be awkward, but try making conversation around him. Maybe if you try talking he will see its not that bad, and maybe things will not be as weird. Talk about anything..Hows he doing? What are his plans for the summer? Wanna hang out sometime? ANYTHING! Just try it and see how it goes.
Hope things work out.
2007-03-20 12:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by ha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated my very best friend before.
and it is odd at first isnt it? hah<3
but seriously just act how you two did before you started dating.
i mean he liked you the way you were before dating him
So just be yourself obviously he loves you for you.
i mean a relationship doesnt mean you always have to be lovey dovey all the time.
you can still be best friends and talk about
what you did when you were best friends.
but you might want to hurry before he starts thinking this was a bad idea.
2007-03-20 12:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him and want a serious relationship, I would tell him some things about you and learn some things about him. bring up any random thing and your conversations start and go on for an hour or so. :)
2007-03-20 12:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by karate girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just shy around. just remember the reason why you guys were like best friends and remember that your in a relationship. so that friendship should be part of your now bf/gf status
2007-03-20 12:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by dizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest you to try not to :get all red", and just act casual, and just try to talk about something that you talked about when you guys were just friends. Try something about homework, or school, something somple and easy. That should be a good start, just don't be afraid.
2007-03-20 12:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by charlene1995 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him how his day was and start a conversation about that. also remember you guys were best friends, what did you talk about then? talk about music, movies, stuff that you have in common
2007-03-20 12:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by Pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋