For WHITE MEN ONLY, I'm wondering why you prefer to date african women & not african american women. Reposting

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i ve noticed that Most of the white guys i ve met prefer African to African American girls. I'm wondering why this is the case.I now realize that it's not the black thing but i don't understand. I ve African friends that i hung out with, all the african girls i know & i ve met are dating & some married to successful white American men.I don't mean to sound like a B but i'm beautiful & lighter in complexion than all my african friends. I do understand that African girls are good, thats why i prefer than as my friends but my do white guys always leave me out. whenever we go out as a group of friends, the white guys after talking to us will always ask for phone numbers of the african girls & leave us the african american girls out. I mean they do talk to us but thats it. they always seem to be more interested in the african girls.some African Americans say, you can bet that whenever you see a white man with a black woman, 90% of the time the woman is african.WHY.i'm attracted to white men

Please do not misunderstand me, I’m not saying my African friends are ugly or that they are black as charcoal. I actually think they are pretty; they are not as dark as some Africans. I’m also not saying that me being lighter makes me better. I have learned a lot from them, like they do not go to the usual black dance clubs that most of us African American go to. They prefer to go to lounges where most of the men there are educated and are successful or in a good career. Why can’t I attract an educated white guy as my African friends do? I have had white guys approach me but they have been black wannabes that dress and act like K Fed (Britney Spears husband). I do not want that kind of a white guy. I’m in college. Since I started hanging out with these girls, I realized that white guys are not as racist as people may want us to believe. Is there something that you white guys don’t like about African American girls. I need serious answers only please!!!. I do not want to hear ****

!!!. I do not want to hear from some telling me to “love my own race” I can’t help who I’m attracted to.

Is it the accent? I have been introduced to the sophisticated parties and dinners by these girls because of the men they date. I don’t dress “ghetto” any more because my friends told me it’s a turn off for these guys.. but still they don’t date me and my other two African American girls. I can’t help but be jealousy sometimes of my friends..What am I doing wrong…what is it

Answer 1

I dont think the answer has to do with the actual skin colour.

It's to do with culture; meaning attitudes and behaviour.

A lot of men find US women aggressive and prefer women from other cultures, African being one of them (others are Thai, Latin America).


There is also the fascination with what is foreign. People form the same place always seem les interesting.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

how light and pretty are you