i mean why you always go home and youre parents are there with you saying youre girfreinds to stupid youre rooms not clean you need do blah blah for me and youre dad im sick of it has anyone got a answer
2007-03-20 12:12:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well i used to feel that way for a while ago until I realized that they are only trying to help you. they love you and are on your side. trust their judgement because they have much more experience than you and they have had faults and they dont want you to have to go through them. :)
2007-03-20 12:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by karate girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea... I DO...
It is easy... because you are making bad choices with girls, you are a slob at home, and your parents care to tell you...
Your parents were young too, you know!!!! And had parents...
I was young too!!!! Still am... and unfortunately we do not appreciate them until we move out, live on our own, wash our own clothes, pick up our own rooms, cook for ourselves, pay our own house and bills, and have our own children...
So in the mean time... and until you are a parent.... start growing up, appreciate, and learn from what your parents are trying to teach you...
Otherwise - you will grow to be a huge slob, the people around you will be slobs, no woman is ever going to stand your behind, and you will be a terrible example as a person and a parent...
Good Luck.
2007-03-20 19:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are like sculptors. They start out with a rough hunk of stuff sitting in front of them, but they don't see what the rest of us see. They see the finished masterpiece. Slowly over time they identify the parts that need to be chiseled away in order to reveal the masterpiece hidden beneath.
If you were a hunk of stone you wouldn't care, because you wouldn't feel the chisel. You feel the chisel and it may hurt a bit at times, but the chisel in the hand of an experienced artist who sees the masterpiece that is hidden just below the surface is not intended to cause pain. It is intended to convey love. The sculptor does not put the chisel to the stone in anger, but in love in order to release the masterpiece.
Someday the chisel may be placed into YOUR hand. Then you will understand. Then you WILL understand.
2007-03-20 19:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by JV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I feel the same way sometimes and thought of it before. Maybe, you just seem to see it that way, but you don't really think they are going to say "Oh, good job! You did ___ right!" every single time you do something right do you?!?!. (Although I wish XD ) But parents always want you to be "perfect" so they always choose out the littlest of a problem and tell you, maybe even yell at you so you can change it. So they don't really ALWAYS see the faults on you they just want to HELp you...
2007-03-20 19:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by charlene1995 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they want you to be the best you can be!
They could probably be more tactful about it though...instead of calling your girlfriend stupid, they could just say that they hope she doesn't cause you to slack off in your schoolwork.
And all parents nag about rooms being messy. And they ask for help because they NEED it--they can't do EVERYTHING any more than YOU can.
Try to be a little more tolerant...trust me, you'll see the light they were shining when you're on your own!
2007-03-20 19:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you're probably under 17yo. Its part of being a teenager. You have things you have to do, responsibilities. Whether its keeping your room clean or taking out the trash. Just do what you know you're suppose to do & you should get along fine.
As for them talking about your girlfriend, that's not right unless she gave them a good reason.
2007-03-20 19:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to admitt you parents care just think about when you were little your mommy and daddy hang out with you . but when you grow up you want your own life. your parents are here to help because once you get your partner u both got to know something to do something. thank your parents for this because one day when you come back you never know when your parents will be gone!!!!.. so think about it live like a sloppy life or let your parents help u so u can learn. you have an option not me
2007-03-20 19:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tianna J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are NOT perfect and they do make mistakes. I think alot of times they may not even realize they are being so down on you.
Try to talk with them about how your feeling. Dont argue with them but tell them youd like to do better and you want to get along. Make more of a effort to do the things you know you need to do so that way they wont feel like they got to tell you.
Your not always going to agree with them on everything but you need to respect them because they are your parents. If you want to be respected you need to show them that you respect yourself first and show them you respect them too. good luck.
2007-03-20 19:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all a part of growing up. Your parents want you to succeed. Yes a clean room wont make you a billion bucks but it will point you in the right direction.
2007-03-20 19:16:40 · answer #9 · answered by hascht2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you never get to hear them bragging to their friends and relatives about how proud they are of you. Tell your parents if they have something negative to say to you, to end with something positive about you. I don't think asking you to clean your room and do chores is out of line, although according to my teenagers it's slave labor. Good luck.
2007-03-20 19:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by flipdout2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋