My mother was sexually abused as a child by her father up until she was 14..why did she fall pregnant...?

Question

with me when she was 16? i mean, after all those years of abuse,wouldn't you think she would want to avoid sexual intercouse with anyone,forever? She loves my father but still, i thought that rape and abuse victims are weird about the whole sex thing..?

Answer 1

i knew another girl, my neighbor in the military housing, with the same experiences, her dad went to jail, they come to de-value sex and themselves, with such low self-esteem they go 'looking for love' that girl at 16 gave away her baby, your mom kept you, how wonderful that is.

Answer 2

some figure if they've already been devirginized they figure y not do it again , some feel worthless and like it wa sthere fault , it affects everyone differently , one of my friedns was sexually abosed by her grand father and she did the same thing as ur mom so it affects people differently

Answer 3

Sweetie..you need to talk to your mom about that. No one knows that answer but her. You could see a therapist, but that person can only give you suggestions as to how you're mother was feeling.

Answer 4

Although i don't know your mother, maybe it wasn't difficult for her to disregard the past actions wtih her father.

Answer 5

there was a book that i read that said, sometimes sex victims just want to have normal sex just so they can feel normal again. its a really good book. you should read it sometime.

Answer 6

some people have reverse reactions to things